One might think that pairing a focused, future-thinking individual with a laid-back opportunist might balance out situations nicely. Ideally, the one obsessed with the future makes the plans, while the one who lives in the present keeps things steady and grounded.
Unfortunately, while that sort of tactic might work well in business, it's far more problematic in an actual relationship. Doubly so when there's a failure to communicate.
And when a holiday requires keeping secrets from others, well...
Written for Melody Song for Jinglemas 2022. Feel free to check out the group if you're interested in participating next year!