In the future, Pinkie Pie's son, Li'l Cheese is told of what happened many Hearth's Warming ago during Twilight's first year as ruler.
Moondancer's mother had a very strong and bitter resentment towards Twilight, and even disowned Moondancer too. Twilight attempted to reconcile the two ponies, only for things to take one horrible turn after another!
LESSON: Some people cannot be persuaded to change. They cannot be bought, badgered, reasoned, or negotiated with. Some people just carry the grudge forever.