Leaving · 9:50pm Jan 15th, 2020
Hey guys, I know this is my second blog today but I need to say a few things.
I’m leaving fimfiction after the amount of times I’ve been bullied, for my shity writing, my liking of kingdom hearts, my home country and overall everything about me.
That’s why I’m permanently leaving Fimfiction on Tuesday 17th of March.
If you want to try and stop me from leaving by all me you can try.
Either contact me here or on discord Reshiram (Jakub Dash)#1106 .
I in a way feel like most of the people followed me because of pity for me or just wanted me to feel better. But yous can drop the facade and unfollow me if you did pity me or wanting to make me feel better.
So goodbye for now.
And may your heart be your guiding key.
*edit: both stories are Cancelled because of my writing, my bad skills and the amount of hate for them, sorry if anyone liked them.*
*edit 2: if somehow you’re not able to talk to me privately on discord you can try and talk to me on this discord server https://discord.gg/jD9Q3J .*
WHAT???? No!!!! Please don't go!!!
Who the heck was doing this to you? That's just rude.
No way. Don't think this!
Please don't go, Jakub!
No one should treat anyone meanly. That's not right and respectful. I treat people with respect and I would never say anything bad about my friends.
We didn't follow you out of pity. We followed you because we love your writing. No matter the contribution, all authors are truly equal on the Fimfiction playing field.
Ultimately, I cannot force you to stay. Just know you will be missed.
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Try to picture writing my stories then you’ll understand what I’ve been through.
Jakub! I honestly never read your stories! I followed because of your great personality! Seriously! I followed you because of YOU!
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Where others saw a source for ridicule, I saw genius. Everybody writes in their own way; this is true here!
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There no hope for me as a writer. Nor a person to be part of the brony fandom
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DONT! There is hope
Uhhh... Okay. If it makes you unhappy to be here, can’t make you stay. Just try not to put yourself down so much, okay? The rest of the world is gonna do that enough, and I’m sure more hate will be very unhealthy.
I have felt like my writing skills will never get better. Right now I'm at the point where I'm scared of the moderators. Liking Kingdom Hearts is not a good reason to be bullied. Don´t leave! Even if you don´t actually write any stories, There is plenty of good stories here to read daily! DONT LEAVE THIS GREAT COMMUNITY!!!
I am sorry to hear that. As for your writing, practice is the only way to get better, there are people on here who can and will help you improve.
I understand being bullied, and it's tempting to leave because of it. I choose the option that actually makes the bullies angry and continue while ignoring them. (I guess that makes me a troll.)
Kingdom Hearts is a great game, built on crossover. Nobody should be bullied over what games they enjoy, or any entertainment they enjoy. As for your country, it's insane to get bullied over living somewhere.
Also, I'd suggest you report the people who bully you. I'm honestly surprised RBT hasn't been banned by now given my experience with their behavior. But they must have some redeeming qualities to still be around. Block them if you don't feel they've done anything reportable.
Ultimately it is your choice to stay or go. While I personally hope you stay, if you still choose to leave I hope you find somewhere you can feel comfortable.
There will always be more people who support you than dislike you.
Please don't leave Jakub, your one of my best friends here and this site wouldn't be the same without you.
Your writing may not be the best, but neither is mine.
You can learn from other writers here and with time you'll get better, I promise
So please don't leave...
Please don´t. I actually look up to you, for what you´ve done here.
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Don't you dare say that! It's so not true Jakub! Never give up hope and have confidence in yourself! Becoming a great writer takes time, you have to be patient! And you will always be apart of this amazing, incredible fandom! Have courage!
Now, I don't know you very well, neighbor. I'm not going to say you're writing is astounding, because I haven't read anything you wrote and I won't lie to you; people deserve better than that. It may be as you say, or it may be much, much better. I simply am not aware, at this moment. However, on the topic of your writing, I will say this: you have passion.
Your stories obviously come from a deep love of your other fandom, and that's a beautiful thing. And even if your grammar and prose need work, that's what editors are for. Making a solid team with another can help double the quality of your stories and help you grow. Furthermore, we all start somewhere. I know, from personal experience, that one's earliest writings will always seem to be failures. However, they are far from it, as they help you grow as an author by helping you solidify your grammar, learn to balance pacing and content, and make contacts within the fandom you're working in to better yourself and your writing.
But if you don't believe me, listen to an actual famous author:
On the topic of this other individual, I have one thing to say: ignore them. You are you; you are not defined by the views of others, nor their opinions. You know who and what you are; don't allow the barbs of others to make you think otherwise about yourself. That person knows nothing about you as a person and his bullying is just the rantings of an ignorant worm trying to topple someone he considers a threat.
Don't let him win. This is a fandom created and driven by a founding belief in friendship and tolerance. The OG bronies, myself included, will tell you that people who don't follow those tenants aren't true bronies, since they fail to grasp the basic morals the show is trying to convey. That bully is beneath you, and deserves pity rather than validation.
May your heart be your guiding key.
I’m really sorry you’ve been bullied. I may not know the exact words that RBT said, but judging by what you’ve said, it sounds awful. I didn’t follow you because I pitied you, I followed because you’re someone I like.
Although my experiences are different than yours, and I’m not going to pretend I know everything, but I feel that.. even if you say you’re a failed author, you can be an excellent author.
As much as I don’t want you to leave, I know you probably won’t listen otherwise.
Please don't leave because of other people.
If you do that, you let them win. Stay, show them you're not going to take any 💩.
I may have not been able to help you completely with editing sunset's guardian angel, but while I was, I saw potential for a great story despite the grammatical errors, all it needed was work.
I genuinely mean what I say, you are a worthy brony and a worthy writer.
My views on stories is that there are no"bad" of "failed" ones, just successes in the making.
If you give in to trolls or hecklers, you let them win, that's why I always leave comments on and ratings on, in my head, if I have or get any trolls who haters it shows them I ain't taking no bull💩 from them.
I say again you have potential, none of us are flawless, my first ever fanfic on here "a family reborn" was a rush job, but I pride it because it came from me.
I hope this helps, I think you'll make it as a writer
Don’t you dare you leave Jakub that guy doesn’t know crap and his probably some brainless
Idiot he doesn’t know anything also take a screenshot of this guys profile and tell the mods about him ps I have looked at your stories they are not bad at all ok please stay as part of this family
Hey! That's the day after my birthday!
Regardless of whether you leave or remain, stay awesome. Feel free to chat with me whenever. If I can talk, I will.
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One of the things that I admire about you is your willingness to improve despite all the flak you catch for not already being perfect. As long as you're striving to improve, you'll make it some day.
Illegitimi non carborundum. I remember when we first met on Discord. Your story was derided, you were offered money to stop writing it, and you pushed through all that to keep going and do better. I believe in you.
If there's bullying going on, do be sure to report this behaviour appropriately. The rules state No personal attacks and No attacks directed at individuals or groups due to race, gender, gender identity, religion or sexual identity. I worry that pointing at their user page instead of just blocking them and/or reporting their behaviour using the built-in mechanisms of the site is probably likewise against the rules. Let them be the one to get in trouble, and move on.
there's an anti-bullying group .come join us .dude im an author to .when i first posted a story .everyone said (on the spot)i must give up .that im a shit writer .that i am bad so i must stop .im not stopping .look if your leaving that means your soft hearted guy/girl .i am a soft hearted guy .just stick with friends in fimfiction and family(if you have family on this site) .bro all my followers followed me out of pity or because we were close friends .no one followed me because of my ,amazing skill of writing ,if i had any.
your new and we all know new people are amazing at first .hell one of the worlds best shooters said it himself that people told him to give up when he first started .i hope you see this
your polish dude.poland is f*cking bad ass country .your country held out against the nazi for 5 weeks and guess what .france a country that had more military power and had the maginot line only lasted 4 weeks .your country is so f*cking badass
(i study history in my spare time)
here .heres my sorry for an excusse story .im shittyer then you are brother but i ain't leaving and neither should you ,brother
https://www.fimfiction.net/story/430286/game-of-love
Was anything derogatory actually said about Poland? I've looked through a lot of the deleted comments from July and I can't find anything.
In the future, if you're being bullied, you should report the issue to us so we can deal with it. You should also block the person to prevent them from commenting on your stuff beyond that. If what you're saying here is true, and if you had reported it at the time, I would have been able to step in and do something about it.
Edit: I'm removing the link to his profile now that multiple people have reported him. As far as I can tell he didn't say anything derogatory during the only time he ever interacted with you. If this isn't the case and you have PMs or some other evidence of bullying, please show it to me so I can act on it, but I don't want him to get harassed now because of this blog when as far as I can tell he didn't do anything wrong.
Please don’t leave, Jakub! I understand if people hurt you deeply, but there are those who love you too
! Such as me and all of the other people begging you to stay in the community!
I want to see you happy on here, though. So, if you truly are not happy on here, you may leave and I promise, I will not pester you about it.
I've been here for about a year now and still haven't published my first story. I've written loads of poems that were praised, but I have yet for a story to be given similar attention. Last year in May, I stopped working on my story because I had given up hope. A few months ago, I found an editor who was willing to work with me to improve my writing skills. We've been friends ever since. I'm still improving. I know my story isn't ready, but the story I want to tell is worth all the time and effort. So, if you have a story that you are passionate about, you need to put your heart and soul into it. Get help and advice. There's an actual writing guide at the top of the page under the category 'Help'. You need all the help you can get. You do know the greatest writers probably started out being criticized and told to just stop right then and there, right? I assume it was only one person who said something to you? Well, here's some news for you. They're only one person. There are billions out there in the world. If there is more praise than there is criticism, then you must be doing something right. Personally, writing is the toughest challenge I have ever faced. But, I won't let that stop me. I love writing too much to give up now. Don't assume that what one person says, everybody says. Like I said before, they are only one person. I know I am just a random stranger who stumbled upon your blog, but if I have a chance to help someone, I take it. I hope that you read this and promise to never leave. You don't have to pay any money to learn about writing here. Yeah, people go to college for writing. But here, we get to learn and improve our skills for free! You aren't the worst writer, and you aren't the greatest writer, but you are a writer no matter what. They're probably one of those people who expect absolute perfection and no less. Well, they're in for a surprise. Nobody is perfect. I don't know you and you don't know me, but trust me. Writing takes practice and patience, but mostly, it takes a heart, soul, imagination, and talent. Not everyone is born with a talent for writing, but they can practice. My teacher always says, "Practice makes precision, not perfect, and she's right(despite how much I despise her lol). Gotta go, I have class. I hope you stay. You sound like a great person from what I've read in the comments so far. Have a great day!
You don't have to stay to write, stay for your friends, stay here to talk to the people who care about you and don't get involved with the ones who try to insult you.
And be proud to be Polish. Poland has virtually saved the world as we know it twice