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  • 53 weeks
    Once Upon A New Home Chapter Two Update/Need Help

    Hello everyone! Hope everyone is having a blessed week so far :twilightsmile: . I wanted to let you all know that I am going to start working on Chapter Two of Once Upon A New Home, but I need your help if you wouldn't mind. I am planning to write about the new arrival of Fluttershy & Big Mac's new foal, but I need help with a name. Also, would you make the foal a boy or girl? Thank you all!

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  • 58 weeks
    Hello Everyone!

    Hello everyone of my Fimfiction Family! I hope you are all doing well & are having a blessed day. I wanted to get on here to let you all know that I am still alive & everything is going well with me. I have just been busy with work & around the house. However, I am also here to share with you that I am going to be trying to finish up the Prologue to the final chapter of the A New Home Series.

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  • 78 weeks
    Once Upon A New Home Update!

    Hello everyone of my Fimfiction Family! First off I would like to hope that you all had a Very Happy & Blessed Thanksgiving yesterday! :twilightsmile: Also, next thing I would like to tell you all is that I will begin working on the new & improved final installment of A New Home! However, I have thought about something to do with Toby, that will shock you all! Stay tuned! :raritywink:

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  • 97 weeks
    An Epic New Home Finale

    Hello everyone! I need all of your guys & girls' help with something I have been thinking. Well, actually a vote on something. I want to make this final story in my New Home Series epic & making not only every character vitable to this series, but making the final story for Toby Mason to be remembered!

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  • 99 weeks
    Hello Everyone! Major News!

    Hello everyone! Hope you are all having a beautiful, blessed, safe, & great 2022 so far! It has been a rollercoaster for me as of late, but I am doing good & just haven't been able to work on my stories as I wish I could, & for that I want to apologize to all of you my friends & followers. :pinkiesad2: However, I would like to make an announcement on A New Home IV: Once Upon A Time.

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Jul
1st
2013

Update on my grandma. · 10:55pm Jul 1st, 2013

Hello all my wonderful friends and readers. I just wanted to write this blog to let you all know that my grandma is home, but she is home on hospice. Which means that the people from hospice will come in, make her feel comfortable, give her medications that home healthcare can not, and all we do is wait for her time to go home in Heaven.


I have only shared my story with my family and best friend who is my friend off the computer, but you all have become such wonderful friends to me and welcomed me warmly to Fimfiction.net, that I feel comfortable in telling you my story about my grandma.


Back in late 2006, she had a stroke and we took to the hospital. Well, while she was in the hospital, she was diagnosed with Dementia, which is like Alzheimer's Disease, but just a early phase of it, and she was recommended to come to live at home with me and my mom. In 2007, I enrolled in a program to become her personal in home caretaker. For the next six years, myself along with my mom have done our best to give her a real good life so we didn't have to make the hard decision in putting her in a nursing home.


At the beginning of this year, also in March, and just yesterday, she has been sent to the hospital due to having a UTI. The past two times, the thought of hospice has been discussed, but me and my mom was just not ready to consider it. However, yesterday was a reality check you would say, so we finally decided to go with hospice. It is just she has become weak, she doesn't eat but baby bites, and when she looks at us, she looks like she is staring off into space.


So now, she is home, but home on hospice, and I know it won't be much longer. I just wanted to thank you all so much for your wonderful friendship, your kind words and well wishes, and support. It means so much to me, and I love you all for that. Thank you all. :pinkiesmile:

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:( :heart: I will continue my support all the way.

at least your grandma is with you right? thats good. and you still have my support!

sorry heart, my grandmother died some years ago with the same condition, so i know what its like, but shes didn't get to live with us back then, she had been put in a retirement home.:pinkiesad2:

I will always be a friend to you, and I'll always support you. :pinkiehappy: :pinkiehappy: :pinkiehappy: :pinkiehappy: :pinkiehappy: :pinkiehappy: :pinkiehappy: :pinkiehappy:

My thoughts are with you and your family. :fluttershysad:

I am so sorry to hear this. I know you may not think I know what you are going through but exactly one year ago my Grandma was placed under Hospice Care. On the 4th of July my Gradnma was walking, talking and being sociable. The next morning she couldn't get out of bed and was unable to speak. 3 AM on the morning on the 14th she passed away peacefully.

Spend as much time with her as you can. If there is anything you want to tell her or talk to her, do so. I don't want you to have any regrets. this time is very previous. I'm shedding tears as I type this. My thoughts and prayers are with you, her, and your family in this tough time.

Sorry. My grandfather died a few months ago, though I don't exactly remember what it was he died from.

I'm sorry to hear that, but you have my support.

I am very sorry to hear this sad bit of news :fluttercry:. You have our full support on this site, both as readers and most importantly, friends. Enjoy the time you still have with her. Make it count for both of you.

My god, that's sad, make sure to talk alot to her so you don't have any regrets. I know hows feels to know someone close to you won't be for long. That happened with my maternal grandpa, I was just 7 years old when that happened. My mom told me that he won't live and I fell to depression when that happened :raritydespair:

Aww. Well you at least you get to spend some time with her and say you love her and when the time finally comes you can say goodbye. And remember, we are all here for ya.:heart:

Like I said in your other blog, always here if you need someone to talk to. :twilightsmile:

Am sorry to hear about that, I understand how hard it can be, my grandpa was diagnosied with dementia as well before he passed, it's can be tough. Atleast she is with you and your family, so you can give her the love and support she needs.

I hope she doesn't suffer much and when she passes maybe she'll go to Equestria and meet Toby and the gang

I understand how hard it is..

At least you're making her as comfortable as possible.

1181773 Thank you, I truly appreciate it. :pinkiesmile:

1181775 Thank you, and yes, she is at home with us now. :pinkiesmile:

1181785 Oh, I am so sorry about your loss, and also that she had to be put in a nursing home. :fluttershysad:

1181789 Thank you my friend always. :pinkiesmile:

1181805 Thank you very much, I truly appreciate that. :pinkiesmile:

1181807 Thank you very much, and I am so sorry for the loss of your grandmother. :fluttershysad:

1181810 My apologies for your loss my friend :fluttershysad:, and thank you too though for your support and friendship. :pinkiesmile:

1181817 Thank you always. :pinkiesmile:

1181833 Thank you my friend, and I promise I will. :pinkiesmile:

1181844 My apologies my friend for your loss :fluttershysad:. Thank you for your kind words, I truly appreciate them, and I will talk with her, and I have no regrets at all. :pinkiesmile:

1181866 Thank you my friend, and when I do say goodbye to her, it will be a peaceful one. :pinkiesmile:

1181925 Thank you always my friend. :pinkiesmile:

1181952 My apologies my friend for your loss. :fluttershysad: We will give the love and care she definitely needs. :pinkiesmile:

1181991 Thank you for that, and I hope it will be peaceful too when she passes. That would be a beautiful experience I believe. :pinkiesmile:

1182056 Thank you my friend, and very true. :pinkiesmile:

1182180 I know you will Jas. :pinkiesmile:

Bud I know exactly how you feel and the last time I saw my Grandma before she went she called me Paul my Grandpa's name and he had been dead for about ten years. It's terrible when grandparents get sick.

1182223 My apologies for your loss my friend. I know, my grandma called my dad Richard the last time he was up here, and his name is Jimmy, and my grandma loves my dad. She called me Richard one time too. :fluttershysad:

1182221 Thank you. :pinkiesmile:

i am m very sorry to here that i lost my grandma to a heart attack when i was 15 you have my full support and my preys are with you and your family

hello my friend i want to let you know i got your back when things seem rough talk to me if you want someone to talk too

1182269 Thank you my friend, and my apologies for your loss. :fluttershysad:

1182317 Thank you my friend, I truly appreciate that. :pinkiesmile:

Buddy it doesn't matter if there is a screen that is between us *Hugs tightly to the computer* I will always be there to help you and hope for the best for you. Your friendship is more than an inspiration, It's has been a remedy to most of my problems that I have faced thus far. I can only slightly repay you for what you have given to me. :heart: :pinkiesad2:

1182616 Thank you always my friend, I truly appreciate that. I am honored to have become your and everyone of my readers' friend. I am humbled by your words, thank you. :pinkiesmile:

Alone by the Storys you write I can see your good heart :heart: . And I just know, your Grandma is proud about you, too.

I and any other Pony will be your friends and support you.

1183028 Thank you always my friend for your wonderful support, and most importantly friendship. I truly appreciate that, and I do believe I have made my grandma proud of me. She always called me her guardian angel ever since I was born. :pinkiesmile: And I will always support all of my friends and readers on here. :heart:

1183039 Guardian Angel... I think that suit's you really good.

I wish for a miracle, but in the case it doesn't happen, at least your grandmother is in your loving care. That's how I would want to go out, too, in the home of my most cherished family.

Prayers to you and her family.

1183040 Thank you for that. That is what makes me break down, because she has always considered me her guardian angel, but in turn she has been mine. :pinkiesmile:

1183998 Thank you very much my friend, I truly appreciate that. Indeed, we will make sure her time with us is good and comfortable. :pinkiesmile:

I want you to know I understand how much it hurts to watch someone waste away. You did an amazing job with your mother taking care of your grandmother for so long, and I hope you're able to handle this loss.

1187373 Thank you very much for your kind words. It will be hard, but when it comes time to say goodbye, I believe I will be able to handle it, it just going to be tough. :fluttershysad:

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