Now that I have the time, here's my first thing of hate on my story. · 11:57pm Jun 17th, 2015
So if you look at The Princess's Keeper you'll notice one of the earliest comments was deleted. The reason was because that individual's comment was
This is fucked up
, so I deleted it. I then sent them a message to let them know why I deleted it, and suggested that they could look at either of my other stories since they do not contain clop. They sent back
It's still fucked up
I sent back
Well that is your opinion but since your saying it right after the first chapter your not giving it much of a chance.
because let's face it, many stories need the help of chapter two to get going.
This is what they sent me.
It's BDSM. Which makes it automatically fucked up.
of course, I didn't want to fight, I did my best not to even though that comment meant they didn't even read my story, so I replied
Again that is your opinion, which is fine. As I have stated I have other works which don't have it, you can feel free to look at them.
I thought I ended it there, I later got this later however.
huh. Anyway, make no mistake -- your BDSM/ownership fetish is going to land you in serious IRL trouble if you let it spiral out of control. Mark my words. Especially if you choose to exercise that fetish. So don't do it.
I want to explain something about what I believe in BDSM: In IRL It need's to be between to consenting individuals, you need to do your damnedest to make sure your partner is safe, you need trust, if you don't trust your partner then you better not dream of trying it until you do because you are putting your safety in another person.
Fantasy is well and good, but let me be perfectly clear. If I ever found out someone was doing something that was portrayed in this Subject I would call the police due to the fact what was portrayed here was abuse disguised as BDSM. And I will NOT stand for his accusation that I for one second ABUSE SOMEONE'S TRUST IN ME! It got to the point I needed someone to turn my upset rant into a response that was not rude
Since you have decide to continue instead of letting it go I now must say this. I am not dumb. If you are taking what is portrayed of BDSM in 50 Shades of Grey as fact and reality, you are just as mistaken as that lady who wrote it. The act of BDSM is not a violent act nor is it meant to hurt any body physically or mentally. it is just another act of love making that is different from yours. when two human beings make the decision of wanting to engage in this sort of love making they take a considerable amount of time talking and figuring out about each others turn ons, turn offs, and there own bodies limitations making sure the other partner understands. this process is something that every couple or two people go through before acting in any kind of love making. Maybe you should educate yourself on this topic and any other topic before you decide to pass judgement on someone or something you don't fully understand just because that topic may make you feel a little bit uncomfortable. also its called a free country no one is forcing you to read this so please move on and leave this story alone.
If this is some of the hate I'll have to endure, I better get ready.
I have to applaud you. You handled it wonderfully and this is the kind of opinion, your's I will add, that really makes sense. We as readers have to distinguish what is reality and what can only be done with words on paper. I for one like to read all sorts of stories containing almost any fetish. But I would never do or perform any of them on my wife. I care about her too much.
I knew this would happen. But know I support you all the way as a fellow writer and a fellow BDSM lover.
well, at least there not criticizing you for grammar. Because the worst criticism is when the complaints are not focus on the story itself.
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Thank you very much for your support on both fronts.
3158614 Wow
, thank you for the applause. Truthfully, when it come to BDSM I would because once again, it is about trust. It would take the trust I would have in her to tell me when she's at her limit, and it would take the trust that she has in me to be able to tell what's beyond it. I think something with that need of trust would only help a relationship.
3158836 yep
Is fucked up..........
I mean seriusly?
At least if im going to leave a coment that have some resemblance to that i would give a reasonable explanation stating what i found bad to make comment that
Well BDSM is not exactly an act of love, that would pervert the meaniong of the word; mostly is about pleasure so i think this kind of people take it as an act of sadism or masochism. they just need to be open minded
3158922 And you know what, I wouldn't have deleted it. Heck right now I don't agree about it perverting the word, but I'm not gonna say "No! Your wrong and your gonna remain wrong until you agree with me." or try to make you feel bad about yourself, you know?
3158964 That's good to know but just to say about perverting the word, well my university is just a bit religious and with the morals
3158988 I think we should probably stop this can of worm from opening here.
3159003 Agreed, my apoligies if this caused some inconvenience
3159019 No it's fine, I'm just tired of arguing, you know?
This is the part of being an internet content creator where you have to ignore the idiots.
3159432 I'm going to try my best.
Block him.
Report him if he bothers you elsewhere.
Some people have their mind so firmly fixed on hatred that nothing will change or stop them. They put on this mental blinder that blocks everything but what they want to hear and fuel their hate. Logic and evidence won't work. Don't argue with them. Just don't.
3159987 alright.
3158614
No he really didn't. He handled it poorly. Someone said something he disagreed with and censored it. If he wanted to respond to it well, he would have ignored it at the worst.
3161651 If you feel I handled the situation poorly, I apologize.
3161703
No, no it's fine, don't mind me. I never had any interest in this debacle or your story to be perfectly frank. I just feel the need to point out to people that censorship is not a particularly good way of handling people with unpleasant opinions. Best of luck to you.
3161721 okay, well if you do find yourself with the time please check out one of my other two stories, I swear they are free of clop.
3161741
Certainly, I would be happy to read your other works.
3161754 thank you
where was this accusation?....
no one who isn't retarded takes those tv shows as an accurate portrayal of reality , which i don't think anyone here does sooo.....
3175564 the person who sent that message to me did
3175594 where did he say that? cause that isn't in any of the text shown here....
3175599 I feel like that's what he was saying
3175601 well i got a different feeling from what he said , which is why i don't like to make assumptions about things , such as him accusing you of "ABUSE SOMEONE'S TRUST IN ME!"....
3175608 alright