After Fluttershy drums up the courage to ask Rarity for something she's always wanted, the fashionista realizes BDSM is quite to her liking...
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Welcome back, and I'm glad to see the story going strong~ I am sorry to hear about the hardships that do assail you and your friend. I hope they get better in the very near future.
A lovely chapter, and a very decent Discord.
Think you forgot a note in the doc at the end.
Great chapter!
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Whoops, thanks!
Really good to see another chapter! I enjoyed it, and I can't say there was any noticeable drop in quality in the second half. You did just fine!
Nothing but good thoughts for Beast - both of you are doing an excellent job!
Great story, but I'm jealous of Rarity. I want a Flutterpet.
I love Fluttershy's protectiveness.
Still no new chapter yet :(
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But what about controlled disciplinary spankings?
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Neither of those is true, I'm afraid. Humiliation can be a turn on, but it isn't always; it's barely even a majority. The petplay as per Flutters' preferences is about exchanging control and exploring a fantasy; adding humiliation to that would just twist in her stomach. Kink isn't and shouldn't be a one-size-fits all; that's the point of the lists, to find where the partners' interests intersect, build trust, and avoid misunderstanding. If you approach a sub RL with that attitude, you're going to miss out on a lot of people's interests and most would be justified in avoiding you and safewording/leaving if you sprung it on them unannounced.
Exchange of control, of power, and a mixing of the fantasies-- that's kink. It can be as simple as being turned on by the look and feel of leather, the excitement of being powerless in ropes (which isn't the same thing as humiliation per se-- humiliation would be focused on mocking and accentuating the power differential), or the sensory response of being blindfolded or otherwise sensory deprived.
As for "needing" pain to establish discipline-- no, absolutely not. If you can't do it through the exchange and your personal presence/personality, you certainly don't deserve to pull it out without consulting the sub. If the sub likes pain, that's fine, within limits; masochism isn't one size fits all, either. You don't 'reinforce' by pulling out the pain, either; you can, if that fits the term of your scene and your negotiations, but if you just default to that, it shows that you're personally out of control and not in control at all.
To be blunt, a dom is not blanket in charge of the sub within a proper Safe, Sane, and Consensual sub. They're putting on the play, the scenario, and indulging their kinks and fulfillment within the terms of the sub's The crossover points of the venn diagram, not exclusively either side. That's why the sub (and because stress can hit a dom, a dom too) has safewords; why the dom needs to be careful about practice and preparation; why negotiations ahead of time like these are vital.
It is vital that when you look at a BDSM relationship, you remember that it is inherently a relationship between moral equals. Don't mistake the fantasy for the reality; the top doesn't truly 'own' the bottom, and pretending like they are doesn't change that. A real top establishes control and maintains it through the flow of the scene; anything from snapped commands to seductive teasing to, yes, spankings if that fits. But to rely upon that? To require it? Or worse yet, to push a partner past their comfort zone?
All the nope. I heartily encourage you to look into the breadth of BDSM in general, not just the S/M side of it. And most importantly, look into Safe, Sane, Consensual. That's how you get loving relationships that satisfy the hungers of both partners; that's how you keep safe, and keep it fun.
Love the story so far, please continue this touching story.
Absolutely love this story, is there any chance of it continuing?
so is this still being worked on or is it pretty much dead
Finish?
Really enjoyed this story. You really have the voices of the characters perfect. And do an excellent job with the subject matter. I notices in the prior comments I'm not the only one who felt there were similarities to Sunstone in that respect.
I'm with several others in expressing my hopes that you continue this piece.
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I agree. But the reason that is exciting is the sense of helplessness. Humiliation means accentuating someone's helplessness. Humiliation in this context means pushing the sense of dependency beyond what is brought on by the scenario already. Reminding the sub of it and moving it from their subconscious to their conscious thought.
The thing is that if you can't reinforce your power with pain nor humiliating then how are you going to do it? Or do you still leave that control and power in the hands of the sub?
I didn't understand that. How is the second part arguments for your point?
But the thing is that what is the sub and dom really after? You say how it's usually done but not what the underlying desire of it is. I feel it is the surrender of power from the sub and the wielding of power from the dom. If it's not that then what is it?
Sorry I am only now replying. For some reason this didn't trigger the notifications.