My grandpa is going to die.. · 7:35pm Jan 16th, 2021
I.. really need to let this out..
A week ago(like on the 7th) my grandpa got sent to the hospital due to a heart attack.
Now today they told me they are going to pull his life support, meaning he's going to die..
I really don't know what to do..
Be there with him when he dies, if he gives you any advice for life, live by it and carry on his life's legacy, make him proud.
If he has any regrets or secrets and tells you, don't tell anyone otherwise you'd be going behind his back even though he's dead it's still a quite mean thing to do.
I'm so sorry fate's done this to you. I hope you'll be ok.
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Thank you.
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You're welcome.
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Have you experienced something like this before.?
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yes...
a friend i loved like a mother figure...
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How long ago.?
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a year ago...
she meant so much to me
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My grandma and grandpa mean so much to me as well..
They may have gotten on my nerves at times and I hated having to do stuff for them but I still love them..
They raised me and cared for me..
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my grandparents were there for me when i had Pyloric Stenosis when i was a baby, they put up with the constant accidental Projectile Vomiting. However they're still alive.
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Although my granddad is starting to get Alzheimers, he's unable to hear me when i talk, and requires a hearing aid, he's even forgotten my name and doesn't remember me as much.
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Oh dear..
I hope he's ok there..
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It hurts, really hurts, so many good memories of him and me, and he's starting to forget who i am and everything we did, everywhere we went...
God, i'm dealing with a Charles Xavier situation, he's acting like how Charles Xavier was in LOGAN(2017).
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I had so many good memories with my grandparents too due to them raising me and such.
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My nan luckily hasn't got it. Yet, at least.
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I hope she will live as long as she can for you there.
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Yeah i know.
God i hate the idea of death and dying one day.
I just wish there was a way for immortality, to cheat death and not have to suffer or die.
Because...i'm scared of dying, i've seen the doctor constantly regenerate, and i never want to die but i know it's inevitable, and it scares me.
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Honestly.. I feel afraid too..
Like whenever I remember about it or think about it, I worry about what will happen decades later.
That my time would be limited..
Wanting to enjoy stuff as MLP as long as I want, wondering what will the world be and such.
It's going to be tough. I hope he rests peacefully.
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I can only second this. The most important thing is that we carry on for the people we lose, if they can't live, then we must live for them. Find the positivity and happiness in life, the sunshine behind the rain. Life is too good to pass up, so many opportunities but we can only do so much. Best we can do is try to live the better days today.
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My granddad is internally dying, and my mother figure has sadly also passed away.
I’m very sorry.
I know that you’re afraid. But he would want you to move on because he’s proud that you’re still standing.
He would be really proud of you if you live for him one day at a time.
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Terribly sorry to hear that... I too, lost my grandfather a few months ago to old age, but I feel relieved that he passed away peacefully...
May your grandfather find peace in the next life.
You have my condolences.
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Thank you for the support everyone.
I am really hoping there's a miracle for my grandpa honestly..
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Praying for you all, dude /)
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Thank you.
Really glad I have family members and people online that can support me and such.
I'm sorry for your loss, your not the only one who lost someone
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Which loved one you had passed on recently?
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no one at the moment but I have lost a lot of people in past, so much death. things don't last forever
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you'll be okay.
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Thank you
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Oh dear..
I already had to deal with grandma's passing since about 5 years ago(in February).
I hope you are feeling ok from what has happened there in your case there..
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it's okay, I have been through this for so long I'm already used to this. don't worry about me, worry about yourself
I'm sorry for your loss. It is okay for you to cry, as you need to get it out of your system. I know that you can pull through and mostly move on, since we never really move on from a death of a loved one. So just remember, after the storm comes the calm.
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Thank you
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Hey man, mind if i post an inspirational quote i borrowed in this chat to lighten things up?
But to also inspire you to keep going.
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If i'm to admit anything, i've rarely cried, in my life i've always been told by my dad to be tough and strong, and in my eyes i thought that meant i can't and shouldn't cry.
I've only ever cried at loss, which has been rare for me.
Personally, sometimes it's hard to display any emotions, sometimes i just want to scream and shout and show what i'm feeling deep inside.
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Ok
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I often cry alot back then honestly.
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Ok, here's the quote. Guess where it's from.
"It all just disappears, doesn't it?. Everything you are, gone in a moment, like breath on a mirror. We all change. When you think about it, we're all different people all through our lives. And that's ok. That's good, you've got to keep moving. So long as you remember all the people that you used to be".
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Thank you.
Curious on where that quote is from.
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Doctor Who, and it was Matt Smith/The 11th doctor who said this, it touched my heart and made me want to save it as a quote i'll one day use at my wedding.
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Its a inspiring quote there for sure.
5437872 Condolences.
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Thank you.
It's a very difficult thing to deal with the loss of a loved one, I pray that the Lord gives you the strength to make it through this.
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Thank you.
I really hope a miracle happens..
Oh no....I'm so sorry
I'm so sorry. I hope for a miracle will happen 🙏❤️.
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I really hope a miracle happens and grandpa wakes up..
Thanks for the support.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you friend.