Regards of how to be (The heartlessness of some)

In a recent riff of one of my fics, THIS message was directly aimed at me... (I won't tell you who sent it)

Oh fuck off, Mykan. Just fuck you. Is that the big moral, the big lesson that we are supposed to take from all of this? That since there are people who are sad out there and that bad things can happen, that we should always be wary and not be completely happy? FUCK THAT NOISE, YOU PIECE OF SHIT! Yeah, bad things happen, some people have miserable lives, and sometimes, there are some people who are sad. It happens, and you can’t change that. But you know what? Your little ideology gets people nowhere. Christmas is that time when you can forget that, where you can share happiness with those who have been through Hell, and be reminded that you are alive. The way you think, you would believe that no one should be happy around this time or that people should care because little Arnie had a crappy life. HELL NO! And you know what I am going to do this Christmas? I am going to visit my family, joke with my friends, wish everyone a happy time, and live my fucking life the happiest I can! ...You guys have really crossed a line now

I have NEVER... EVER seen such disregard for people's feelings, and such blunt heartlessness and ignorance of humanity (And all for the sake of not caring about people and just wanting a good laugh)

The message my fic (That was riffed) was trying to warn people about is...

Christmas may be a merry time, but that doesn't mean everyone is happy, and it also doesn't mean people HAVE to be happy. I'm not saying people HAVE to be miserable or should be.

I didn't feel like Celebrating Christmas this year... because this entire 2018 has been one big wreck, for me and my family (ONE bad thing has happened after another) I cannot list them as they are private, but I can tell you, we've had THREE DEATH'S in the family this year.

The most recent one was on December 18th (ONE WEEK Before the holidays)

We are sad... we are grieving... yes, we are trying to be brave and carry on, but that does not change a thing...!! It's hard to merry in Christmas, when someone you really loved just passed away, and the rest of the year was one big flop after another.

But THAT message up there... WHOOOOOOOOOOOO... whoever said that has some nerve, and obviously still thinks he's in the right of TELLING people how to live, what to like, and what not to like, and he wonders why people tell him to Piss off.

Just because people CAN/SHOULD move on doesn't mean THEY WILL.

some scars can take a very, very long time to heal...

and some scars never heal AT ALL, no matter how much you want them too, and deaths in the family will NEVER HEAL.

You can get on with your life... yes.
It's okay to be sad, but just don't be mopey over it.

that does not mean the pain is gone and won't bother us anymore... that's not how life goes.

and rudely insisting people GET OVER IT, and BE HAPPY... that is CRUEL!

Life is not something we can control all the time, and when things happen... others things can happen too.

But don't tell other people how to live their lives...
Don't tell them to GET OVER it just like that...
Don't FORCE them to accept things...
Don't tell them what they should and should not be like...

and most importantly, LEARN TO READ BETWEEN THE LINES. (That's another issue; my haters very poor reading and contradicting things)

A message up there like that... that is SICK, and COLD-HEARTED.

And I do submit... anyone who acts like that towards people really ought to get stepped on!

And I'm not wrong.