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I am an Anti-Brony, I hate MLP, so why am I here? Read this...! https://www.fimfiction.net/blog/769267/if-im-an-anti-brony-why-am-i-on-this-site

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Feb
9th
2024

(Psychology) Trying to Change People who Don't want to Change. · 11:39pm February 9th

In relation to all the psychology pointers I've been giving I want to share with you a big pile of facts and inspiration I found from someone named

Sharon Martin, MSW, LCSW, a licensed psychotherapist specializing in helping individuals struggling with perfectionism, codependency, and people-pleasing.

Since a lot of people keep calling what I quote and point out "Your twisted view of reality" even though it's real reality too... Let's see how they react when this stuff is told by an actual psychologist. (Though I know they're gonna call the person crazy due to their own twisted demands of how reality should be)

Observe this link...

Stop Trying to Change People Who Dont Want to Change

I've read a lot what Sharon had to say about this particular subject, and I believe is right in many ways, and I want you to observe them all too and see how you feel about them.

Are you a helper, fixer, or rescuer?

Identify which part of the problem is in your control

Trying to solve other peoples problems often makes things worse, not better

Its not helpful to try to solve other peoples problems because:

Sometimes you can help

Control vs. influence

(When it comes to making characters, it will always be CONTROL)

How to stop trying to fix, change, or solve other peoples problems

What do you think of all the things Sharon had to say about those subjects?

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