I'll be honest: If you don't want to come off as a bunch of creeps and pedophiles, your icon really shouldn't be a child spanking an adult!

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Unfortunately, to the best of my knowledge, the group Admin has been inactive for well over a year now (possibly more, time has just been blending in on itself for me lately).
So as far as I can guess, the only person who can change the icon isn't going to be here to address your concern anytime soon.

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a bunch of creeps and pedophiles

Let's not forget that you also joined this group yourself. Welcome to our group, fellow creepy pedophile.

It's a bit weird, but I don't think it's meant to be taken seriously.

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This fandom and this website have normalized child erotica (“foalcon” in Brony jargon). It even appears in the featured box not infrequently. After that: It's hard to see the icon as a joke.

7071041 If it's already normalized, what's the problem then? Why would you see something that is normal as problematic?