Offer: I Will Tie You Up at BronyCon (And Possibly Let You Tie Me Up*) · 8:14am Aug 2nd, 2019
Offer: I Will Tie You Up at BronyCon (And Possibly Let You Tie Me Up*)
Wait, what?
That’s right, I love BDSM, and I want to share that experience with you, random blog reader. So, I am offering to tie you up. Clothes on, some or all clothes off, completely chaste or devilishly erotic, whatever you want to try and feel comfortable with. I have various supplies (not specifically for this con, but for a date I have in Chicago on my way back to SoCal), and an AirBnB all to myself a little over a mile from the con (or we can meet at your place.). So, if that sounds interesting, hit me up, and we can discuss the details!
So, some more info and disclaimers:
I do not have a ton of sexual experience. I’m rapidly changing that though. My personal life may be a hot mess, but my love life these past three months has been nothing short of amazing. Anyway, I haven’t been around the block a ton, but I do have a lot of knowledge, and my boyfriend (we’re poly, and he knows about and encourages this endeavor) has said, and I quote, “wow, you’re a really good dom.” When it comes to bondage, I feel confident in saying I know what I’m doing (and won’t be doing anything I’m not sure of.) I’m very shy about my body and may start a bit nervous at first, but once I get going, watch out! In both a dom and sub role, BDSM helps me come out my shell. Further more, I may drink to easy
my nervousness, but will not be getting anywhere near too drunk to give or respect consent. Other than that I will be completely sober.
Taking on the submissive role in BDSM is a very vulnerable experience, so of course you probably have concerns and reservations. I want to make clear: this is not about me, the dom. This is about you, the sub. Before we do anything, we will talk extensively in person about consent, your desires, turn ons, turn offs, soft limits, hard limits, and MOST IMPORTANTLY, safe words. I want you to have a good time, and I want to keep things safe, sane, and consensual.
A note: BDSM, by the way, stands for Bondage/Discipline, Domination/Submission, and Sadism/Masochism. I am most natural at and into the Bondage and pleasure denial/reward aspect of BDSM. But if you like pain, if you like degradation, if you like __insert weird fetish here__, I will do my best to fulfill your desires. You sick perverted fuck. Nah, just kidding, no judgment. We’re Bronies, after all.
Trust and Safety
On my end: put simply, i’m not a shitty person and I’m not a creep. I have numerous character references within and outside the Brony writing community, and I encourage you to film us or bring a friend. I want you to feel safe and comfortable. This is absolutely not about taking advantage of tied up people. This is about showing you a good time. Also, if it’s cool
On your end: I have no clue where I would even begin with the legalese needed to protect myself from liability should you choose to slander me. I am relying, perhaps naïvely, on my faith in humanity and common decency. That said, just in case, I will be filming the proceedings. I will not be sharing this footage with anyone including my boyfriend, and will delete this film after a few weeks if no issues arise.
Conditions and limits:
YOU ABSOLUTELY MUST BE EIGHTEEN OR OLDER. I absolutely will not be doing anything, sexual or not, with you if you cannot provide me physical proof that you are eighteen or older.
My hard limits:
No Scat play. No water sports
No diapers
Nothing public. If you want to share the footage or photos, ask for my permission first
No penetration without a condom (I brought plenty)
No racial or anti-queer words. Things like “slut” and “bitch” are fine.
No under-age role play or incest role play.
That’s all I can immediately think of, but I reserve the right to add more things to this section, and also to use a safeword if I start to feel comfortable.
My soft limits:
I’m willing to lightly choke you with my hand. Nothing beyond that. Better safe than sorry.
Consensual non-consent is okay, but only with extensive communication beforehand.
Again, I may think of other things, and will add them to this list if needed.
About me: 5’5”, 220-pound 27-year old polyamorous cis heteroflexible (not straight) white man. Average sized.
About you: over eighteen, any gender, able to give consent, and ready to have a great time. My AirBnB room is up a flight of stairs, so if that presents an issue for, then we’ll need to do stuff at your place instead.
I think that’s about all! So yeah, if you want to try something new and exciting, hit me up here or text me at (714) 496-3119.
See you around.
*Oh yeah, I almost forgot about that asterisk. I am a switch, which means I can do and enjoy both doming and subbing. I love being a sub more than a dom actually. However, unless I know you very well and you have previous BDSM experience, I’d like to remain the one in charge this time.
