What kind of Reality does Mykan Live in · 6:30pm Feb 20th, 2018
Many people are really not checking their blind spots and going way over the line with conspiracies about me...
So I'm going to have to correct them...
WON'T GET A JOB
1: (Partially because of my autism) I've been legally declared UN-FIT to join the workforce (Not by me, by the actual government) I'm only allowed to get jobs that best suit MY NEEDS and MY TALENTS (Actings, singing, voice acting... yayayayaya)
2: I can't stand the thought of becoming what my parents and siblings became; coming home so tired they just sleep all day, having hardly any time to do things they like, and having really disgusting attitudes and stuff.
3: I already lost a lot because of growing older, I don't want to lose what I have left of what I love and prefer (Video games, making fics, fanart, vids) And Nooooooooooo... if I get a job, I will NOT make time for those things. I will throw them out. If you don't have time for them, or you're too tired to do them (Like my family usually is) then DON'T DO THEM AGAIN!! Don't even touch them, or think about them.
4: Even if I did get a job, the creeps said they'd still hound on me. So why should I do what THEY WANT ME TO DO, when it doesn't matter to them at all? Really answer that. And don't "We don't want you NOT to have a job or a life" because the attitudes and past actions say different.
5: I don't need a job either, and I'm not going to end up in the streets like many people keep WISHING to happen to me and say it's GOING to happen to me...
we don't have to wish for you to end up on the streets because that's when it's going to happen eventually, you refuse to get a job So eventually you'll run out of money to support yourself, and when that happens your reality is going to come Crashing Down when you realize that you wasted your life whining about your pride when you could have been making money in providing for yourself.
I can't say exactly what they are (Personal and private) but... me and my family have already done all the paperwork, all the arrangements are made; there's no possible way I'm going to end up in the street. My future has been planned for me. So no matter how much you keep wanting it or saying it will happen... it's not going to.
6: I don't want having a job I don't want to make me happier or make my life better... I want it to make things WORSE!!
WON'T PURSUE A RELATIONSHIP
1: Like most little boys younger than five, I was repulsed by the stuff-- kissing, flirting, marriage... all of it. And like most little boys, I said "I will never fall in love" Most boys always say that, and they caved in, they fell in love. At least I stayed true to my word.
2: I'm still REPULSED by it... (In real life at least, for some reason cartoons and anime's don't disturb me as much since it's fictional) So naturally, I don't want to have a relationship.
3: I can't take care of a wife, I can barely take care of myself.
4: I LOVE BEING SINGLE... (even my brother agreed with me on this) I have fewer obligations, no one breathing down my back, less expenses, more freedom and privacy... To me... IT'S PARADISE!!
5: If I had a wife, I wouldn't get to gentlemanly flirt with all the lady celebs I meet... (Met 25 so far)
"Oh, why don't you ever treat ME like that"
"Why don't you ever give ME flowers and kiss my hand?!"
...Nuts to that!
6: Newsflash: Being in love and having a relationship is not an actual LIFE REQUIREMENT or a law. I don't need to have a special someone in my life to actually BE ALIVE. I'm HAPPY being SINGLE.
You people need to stop making wild accusations of me, stop insulting me, and fix your own attitudes as well. Sure, I'm not blameless, but neither are you for your actions.
I won’t say anything about your decision to stay out of the workforce (as that is entirely your business) but I will say this:
As a person with very mild autism (specifically Asperger’s), I find having a job rewarding, at least in my line of work. I come home every day tired, yeah, but feeling accomplished, and I enjoy my hobbies more than I would if I had plenty of time to do them, since I’m hardly exposed to them every day, does that make sense? It doesn’t numb the excitement of anything fun, as doing it every day would.
I’m just throwing my two cents into the mix here.
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That's fine for you, I'm not calling you a bad person. But though we're BOTH autistic (I have Asperger's too) We're still not the same in many ways. (You should see my social group. Some of us, like me, are sane and calm. Others are LOUD and pushy)
But I'd rather not do it your way. That's good for you, but not me. I don't feel the way you do and it'd be better if I didn't.
The only thing that truly makes who you are is your attitude, not your employment.