Return of The Grumpy Pants · 11:25pm Aug 18th, 2017
Oh my, I've seen quite a bit of hate on my new reboot of Aria. The like to dislike ratio doesn't honestly concern me anymore. It's a bit of a game now. I do appreciate upvotes, but the downvotes honestly don't say anything anymore. I could write anything and people would be salty in the up to down ratio. It's a difficult but entertaining game. If the upvotes are higher than the downvotes, I win. Yay, I get an imaginary cookie. Oh wait, there are cookies in the kitchen, it's real. If the downvotes are more prevalent, screw you, I'm getting a cookie anyway.
What I find troublesome is the comments. I am aware that I have a poor reputation among most of the transgender community on this site due to my poorly done expression in Aria which mislead many non-trans people and enraged many trans people. This does not mean I'm invalid, it just means I didn't properly express my thoughts and/or have had vastly different experiences with gender dysphoria to you. I will certainly acknowledge that you are valid, and have had different experiences than what I have been through, but I don't agree with your tendency to invalidate anything that disagrees with your specific parameters to qualify what being transgender means. I am uncomfortable in my own body due to my sex and I plan to make steps to bring my body as close as I can to how I want to be. If that doesn't make me transgender in your eyes, maybe you need them checked.
To anyone else who is transgender, answer something for me: What makes you transgender?
Your experiences have nothing to do with whether or not you're transgender. If you're uncomfortable with your own body, if you feel trapped in a body with a sex opposite to your gender identity, that means you're transgender. If you think I don't understand that, then that's your problem. It's honestly not my job to get you to accept me as transgender, but if you don't, just stop talking to me. Stop commenting on my stories, ignore my posts, and you know what? Block me. I don't want to fight with you anymore, because I'm sick and tired of it. If you don't believe I'm truly transgender, keep it to your circle jerk and leave me alone or I swear to any higher power you may or may not believe in, you will not be shut down through my comments. If you persist, I WILL block and report you, beyond a shadow of a doubt. Go back to your little corner of difference loathing darkness and leave me alone. So my stories will never be featured because you're downvoting then. Just stop engaging with me if you dislike me. Because if you're going to be jerks about it, I don't care to have anything to do with you, so leave me alone.
