Who The Hell Dates Like This? · 2:21pm Sep 30th, 2016
Alright, so we're listening to a radio thing about abusive relationships, which is a fucked subject. So, this one girl, the main character, the abused, says she dated a 21-year-old guy... when she was 13...
The desperate.
A relationship like that is illegal in so many ways. The physical abuse, the physical abuse on a minor, and where I'm from, its illegal to be dating a minor unless you are within a year of age. So 17-18. If they had sexual relations its sex with a minor.
4233569 It disturbs me and makes me think 'Is it the abuser's fault, or is it the abused's?' Cause in a way, you're stupid to date a guy who is way out there. It's like a guy that's 21 dating an elder that's 65. Know what I mean? Don't date the exact age, but for God's sake.
4233574 Yeah i dont know what is going through the head of someone like that. The sad part is I know a girl that has a serious crush on me. The only reason I refuse to date her is because she's 14 and a freshman in high school.
4233581 You know, there's moments where some adults may look like them, but still. Anyone who does stuff like that is... awkward, to be polite.
*coughs and quickly runs away*
I don't understand that. Why always this happens?
4233569 A relationship like that isn't technically illegal. It's only if they have sex that it becomes a crime. However, that doesn't mean it isn't still wrong.
I'll admit, I met a couple that were 18 and 14, but in that case it did seem like they cared for each other and they were waiting until she was 17 before doing anything physical. While still weird, in the end four years difference isn't much. I just hope they really did wait a couple years. This, however, is different. This is a grown man of drinking age dating a middle schooler and being abusive.
The way I see it, unless you were in high school at the same time at some point (void if held back a grade), you wait until 18. And even that's pushing it.
I had a Facebook relationship with a girl last year until I found out she lied about her age and I broke it off afterwards so yeah that got really akward
I have a girlfriend that's 17. And I'm 23 and we've been together for over 2 years.
I have a crush on a girl who's 2 years older than I am, that's the biggest kind of age gap I've experienced (never been in a relationship before lol)
4233813 see, that's pretty fine, I guess.
Jesus
Well, apparently girls just like dating older guys because girls go through puberty a lot sooner.
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