Why I'm Getting a Do Not Contact Order · 3:38am Dec 3rd, 2021
So, I'm planning on making a gigantic post detailing the whole Hailey saga from start to finish as this is likely to be the last chapter of it.
I was just minding my own damn business, walking from 3rd period to 4th, staggering behind just a tad to see if I could catch my friend as it had been a whole 3 hours since we had last seen each other and 10 minutes since we last spoke. Then I see Hailey in the hallway, she approaches me and then this happens.
H- Have you heard what people have been saying about you?
TG *slightly alarmed* No, why?
H- well people have been saying that you have an age regression^ problem since you know, you talk kinda funny and you wear pigtails a lot and you wear stuff like *motions toward my hot pink adidas hoodie* that.
^age regression is when, either due to a mental disability or trauma, one behaves the way that a young child would. My affinity for pink and pigtails are actually outward coping mechanisms for my PTSD, but not in that sorta way.
TG- what the hell? Why didn't you tell them that wasn't true?
H- cuz like I didn't know if it was or not. Is it?
TG: No!
H-yea do you want me to tell you who did it? Cuz i can tell you who did it.
TG- go for it
H- it was Ari and Hunter
TG *in shock* Okay bye I guess
Which leads to one of my more intimidating companions texting Ari that if she's finna fight anyone it's gonna be him. And she sends me a screenshot on instagram asking what the hell that was about. I explained that Hailey had said blah blah blah. Ari and Hunter did absolutely nothing, and Hunter hasn't even been to school this week. We talk about how Hailey always does stuff like this and why Ari being dragged into it was unfair just lots of repetition.
I am so fucking done with this.
Like honest to God what did she expect would happen? That I would just blindly cause a scene without asking questions first? That I'd block people and never speak to them again? Neither of which routes I would opt to take most situations. Hell Ari didn't even know what age regression was.
I can't begin to tell you how many times this has happened. And at one point after I had literally thrown hands with Hailey I said and I quote "cross me again and imma beat your ass bitch". Not my brightest moment to be sure, but it sends the clear message of I don't like you.
I don't like you = we are not friends.
We are not friends = stop actually crashing play rehearsals just cuz your sorry excuse for a mother was late picking you up.
This among other things is why I will be pushing past my apprehension to talk about my problems to any school faculty so that I can draw up a 'do not contact' form to get this fucking bimbo out of my life.
Screw taking the higher road, next time she tries to turn me against my friends I'm gonna knock her teeth out and gladly take whatever repercussions followed. And so God help me if I see her outside of school.
Anyway, I'm going to stop threatening violence and end it here. Like I said I'm gonna be posting the full saga soon. If anyone would care to see the OG stories told when they were actually happening.
Positive vibes ig.
Sometimes stupid or petty people push things too far, and you just have to put your foot down. Good to see you understand that. As for your more violent tendencies, you've been through a lot of shit. The world doesn't owe you anything, but that also means you don't owe the world anything either. If people have a problem with you, but can't even be bothered to say it to your face, let them say it to your fist.
Sorry, bad advice. Still, I know too well the frustration of having people I know don't like me try to act like they're so sneaky and cunning while I'm just standing their with an Applejack-worthy raised eyebrow like 'wtf bitch, who do you think you're fooling?' It's so tempting to just deck them sometimes. I guess, stay the course you've outlined for yourself above?
I’d advise against violence only because the consequences tend to stick around for a very long time.
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Truth be told I'm not typically a violent person, I very much prefer to fight my more aggressive battles with words because bruises heal faster than the heart.
The last time I actually did fight anyone was with Hailey several years ago, which was mostly due to her threatening me multiple times first, as well as to drive the point home that we aren't friends, but apparently that didn't seem to stick cuz none of this would have happened if it did.
But yeah it's whatever, don't think I'm actually going to go that far unless like I said, she decides to try anything outside of school. Whatever it takes for her to get off her high horse and stay outta my general area.