I think I have lost everybody that was my friend in IRL. · 6:15pm Jan 24th, 2020
I don't understand it! I haven't changed so why do I get treated like this. I am so tired of losing people in my family and my friends walking out on me. I don't know what to do anymore I am lost. Is this all my fault? Do I deserve this? I haven't changed but yet all my friends hate me. I have been trying to just help people and yet I am the one that has to deal with this? Am I being punished for helping people? I have tried my best but I can't deny that I am beginning to lose it. I am at this point on the edge of my sanity. I only have one person in my life left if I lose them I don't know what I'll do. I need help! I can't do this alone anymore. I am sorry for this blog but I don't know any where else to turn incept you guy's my friends here.
Oh no! I'm so, so sorry. I don't have anything I can say to make things better, but...........we're here for you. No matter what. Don't apologize for telling us this. I'm glad you did.
What are they doing exactly? There behavior, your behavior, something must have happened this doesn't sound normal. Maybe a change has happened and you didn't notice it's happened to me before. Ask them if something wrong really find out be forceful if you have to cause something obviously has happened.
This isn’t your fault. You may not of changed, but your old friends might’ve. I went through something similar recently. My old best friend and I drifted apart. It’s nothing to be worried about, I promise. It just happens and there’s nothing really you can do.
I’d recommend you go out and try to make more friends. Join a group or youth group. Attend an event or small gathering. It helps to get out there, even it it makes you slightly uncomfortable. In the end, you’ll find someone who will actually stay.
Just keep trying and hopefully everything will work out in the end.
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He has flat out been rude to me and just completely been a dick to me overall when I have been treating him like a real friend. I don't understand it! I haven't done anything I haven't changed and I haven't done anything to him.
You’re not being punished nor do you deserve this, obviously it is they that are changing. But don’t worry, we’re here for you and don’t plan on leaving any time soon, well me at least.
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If he’s really been so rude to you, is he really your friend? Friendships goes both ways. If you treated him kindly and he treated you badly in return, you need to forget about him and move on.
I’m sorry to say this, but maybe it’s a good thing you’re drifting apart. Nobody deserves to be treated that way. It isn’t your fault, it’s his.
Are they blatantly leaving you? or are you guys just drifting apart?
If the latter is true, while sad, it's also normal, especially in the first years after high school. I've been through this plenty of times. Mostly, it's because of a geographical difference. We keep in touch, but not much. We're still friends, but not as close as we used to be. The only upside is those rare occasions we get to reconnect are joyous ones.
However, if they're just outright leaving you and cutting you out completely, then, chances are, they probably weren't really your friends to begin with.
Maybe it is time you go out and find more friends. It can be hard and downright suck, but this is where you'll find the people who will be with you for a lifetime. In the meantime, know you got some friends here.
You have done nothing wrong to cause this! Trust me when I say, we will NEVER leave you hanging. At least I won’t. I suggest that you should try and find out why they’re treating you that way, because being treated that way is not okay. We are here for you, God is here for you.
there's nothing I can say that hasn't already been said my friend. just know that I am here and I'll help however I can.