Criticism Rants · 10:01pm Jul 20th, 2013
Criticism can be good if it results in a positive behavior change or it can be bad when it ends up hurting the person feelings, criticism has been used primarily in a negative sense because the way it's used by people.
Nothing seems to gradually erode that sometimes causing irreversible damage than criticizing people around us negatively. The goal of constructive criticism, as it is sometimes called, should be to correct people's mistakes but not to bring them down.
Reason Many use criticism as a excuse to leave a comments/reviews for a personal-attack, and this is many reason people dislike to by criticism. Criticism is good if done in a polite way and indirectly with great amount of precaution so that it could not hurt and humiliate him/her in his/her eyes rather than his/her hearts.
That mean you so never insult the person work in any level.
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What good is criticizing someone when the recipient of the critical feedback ends up having negative feelings about the one providing the feedback? What good is criticism when the mistake or behavior is never corrected due to the ill feelings that one develops about the person showering that criticism?
What good is criticism when the person being criticized pulls away from the person providing it?
Reason There are many good reason why people never like to by criticizer, and the reason for that is that. That person never ask for one and is no doubt, some people bother others people by their frequent criticisms. I mean if someone never ask to have criticism in his/her work, you so never give one.
I mean is like you putting your nose in a conversation that no one inviting you. Criticism is not really appreciated by anyone special is a negative one which makes the other one feel bad.
The reality is that negative criticism does not make any better. So if you give that person a negative-criticism, then you going to get a negative-respond.
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Ask How You Can Help If you want to help someone by they mistake, you can only do is offering advice straight away. Ask "What can I do to help?" or "I see you have few grammar mistake, I can offering you my help for that."
offer this simply as an example, rather than telling them "You should do it just like this." or something like that.
Also because you criticism someone work, that not mean that person will listen. You really can not get somebody to fix they mistake when they can't find a good reason, and honestly you can't so not amount of screaming, crying, begging, threatening, etc. could have convinced that person to listen to you criticism.
You can't force someone to fix they mistake when is not a good reason. If they don't want to get help, then there is nothing that anyone can do about it. It's easy to get carried away into trying to change those around us but of course there's nothing wrong in being moved by someone else’s struggles.
But ultimately, the greatest kindness we can do is to accept other people for who they are, and to accept that their path in life is not going to be the same as ours.
Let everyone to find their own way, your role isn't to be a tour guide, it's to be a companion on the route, perhaps pointing out dangers and helping them over rough spots but ultimately letting them choose their own direction and decisions.
The point is that criticism can be good depend in the way you use it.
Deleted and upload again since the previously one is full of spam and immature people, even this blog is not attacking anyone people attack me like a angry idiots
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The box is there because it's designed to A, stop people from posting retarded comments and then deleting them so there's basically no proof unless either someone luckily screenshots it or you get site admins involved, and B, to stop posters from censoring anything they don't like.
this was from the last blog post, so eh.... I'll still post it
whaaat I was in the middle of reading his comment and accidentally refreshed to find it gone! Uwaaa
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I couldn't have said it any better!
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1223269 Yeah! Those meanie-buttfaces, trying to make him use grammar and spelling that would properly and coherently get his point across! How silly!
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(masterfully played, bff)
Va bene, I'm deeply apologetic that my comment may have offended your sensibilities in some way, but the purpose of comments is not to exclusively force people to say only nice things about your stories/blog posts. They are there for constructive criticism, be it pointing out syntax and grammar errors or pointing out how a story could be improved with elaboration, story expansion, or otherwise.
I'm mature enough to admit that I've had a few unfavorable comments, but I also know the difference between a personal attack and a genuine review. Be it a single element of a piece that stands out or the entire document, you have no business dictating what other people can and cannot post on the basis that you don't like their opinion.
If this comment is deleted and the blog reposted again, I will PM knighty and inquire as to what the grounds are for spamming to be considered such.
I hope you have a good day, and take what little advice you choose from this comment.
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I don't deleted it for that, and I'm not sensibility.
Not a excuse.
Oh, me too.
Yet, that not give anyone the right to be a asshole to others people just because they not like how the person write.
Lol
wow you people really take this tooooo seriously 
That just proof it how immature this site is.
:O Mista felix! why u delete meh?
noooo I spent like at least 5 minutes correcting the grammar here. wai you delete D:
besides it was meant for blog readers, not you. you know what you meant in your blog.
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First I don't ever ask you to do that, and second everything in this blog is correct so not complain like a 5 year old kid
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I know right?! Everyone takes shit too fucking seriously, they need to tone it back man! Like seriously, why they gotta be so immature, it's dumb as fuck!
Mabbeh we should ask our mighty overlord...no not knighty http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Criticism WIKIPEDIA!!!!
1223375 I second this!
Everyone is immature according to Felix! Yaaay!
hey u do a realy good job makin these blog post. like ur realy smart!!!
Can you pleeeeeas make a blog on how to right a good romance story? cuz i realy want to right one but i dunno how!!
ps these guys bein haters r just mad at u cuz u have a ton off stories and fans
This comment section:
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(I am doing this cuz my friends ask me to, I have nothing against you at the moment.)
HAY GUYSH CULD YO RED MIE FIXSHUN-zsadhaosdAJSd!
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Nicely said.