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Bell


Purveyor of substandard horse-words since 2012. [they/them]

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  • 72 weeks
    Update Regarding My Last Blog Post...

    Hey everyone. In case any of you missed my last blog post, I'll tl;dr it for you: My Grandma passed away last week, and we're currently trying to raise funds to assist with her funeral costs.

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    1 comments · 95 views
  • 72 weeks
    My Family and I Need Help...

    Hi, everyone. This is not a blog post I wanted to make, but my family and I are pretty much at our wits' end. My grandmother died earlier this week, and we don't have the money to give her the funeral we know she would have wanted, and that we feel she deserves. She was a kind, loving, generous woman—the kind of person about whom you could say, "she'd give you the shirt off her back," and it

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    20 comments · 670 views
  • 107 weeks
    Ten Years

    Today makes an entire decade that I've been on this site. I honestly don't have any profound words for the occasion, but the anniversary feels too significant to let it go by without saying anything at all. I guess I'll just say thank you to everyone who has read my stories, faved and commented on them. And especially I'll thank anyone who has followed me. Y'all are definitely the reason that

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    2 comments · 156 views
  • 135 weeks
    We Need to Talk About Pipp...

    ...and how cute she is! (Slight spoilers for MLP: A New Generation below, if you consider no-context screencaps spoilers.)

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    0 comments · 183 views
  • 176 weeks
    New Name, (Slightly) Different Avatar, and Some News

    So, you all may have noticed some changes to my account that just took effect, and there is a very good reason for all of them. I've decided to tell you all something I've known about myself for quite a while now, but only just started being comfortable enough to share online. And that is that I am non-binary and pansexual. Perhaps the pansexuality came as a surprise to no one (I've never been

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Dec
19th
2020

New Name, (Slightly) Different Avatar, and Some News · 8:29am Dec 19th, 2020

So, you all may have noticed some changes to my account that just took effect, and there is a very good reason for all of them. I've decided to tell you all something I've known about myself for quite a while now, but only just started being comfortable enough to share online. And that is that I am non-binary and pansexual. Perhaps the pansexuality came as a surprise to no one (I've never been exactly subtle about my sexual orientation, online or irl), but coming out about my gender identity represents a huge step forward in this personal struggle for me. I have the utmost faith that all of you will support me as I continue on my journey.

So being enby, I decided to change my name to something more gender-neutral (the name Chuck-daddy having a literal symbol of masculinity in it), and to put my pride flags in my avatar. I had previously only put pride flags in my avatar during pride month, but you know what? Who I am doesn't stop just because it's not June. I want anyone interacting with me to know exactly what I stand for.

And because sharing pronouns is a necessity when one comes out about their gender, I will say that mine are they/them.

And that's all for now, I guess. I welcome any questions you may have, if they are in good faith and not disrespectful. I'm a pretty open book, but I don't want to have to defend my very right to exist to anyone.

Comments ( 5 )

From a fellow enby (demigirl). Congratulations. We're all very proud of you.

Bell #2 · Dec 19th, 2020 · · 1 ·

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Thank you so much :twilightsmile: As I said in the blog post, this took a lot of wrestling with my own mind, but I just know that I'm going to be happier living my authentic self :heart:

Congratulations on figuring out more of you who are. it's always a struggle to get there but I'm so happy for you that you have.

No questions, just saying I've got your back.

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Thank you so much. Your support and kindness mean a lot. :heart:

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