I almost made a big fucking mistake... So help me make a choice that reinstills some hope from my parents.

So I'm thinking of buying a new graphics card. In my idiot mind, I thought it a good idea to buy a $380 card, and in response, got my dad screaming at me, telling me how much of a careless idiot I am, and telling me to get a job, because I obviously don't have any concept of money.

So those of you with machines that can run Trials Fusion at moderately high settings, and know what to look for, any advice as to what I should get?

Because a GT 9500 won't cut it anymore. I can't even start a few of my games, its that old.