Perdon / I'm sorry · 4:10am Nov 20th, 2014
Acabo de tener una discusión más o menos fuerte con mi madre. Nada realmente serio, solo la típica discusión cuando dos personas, que viven bajo el mismo techo, acaban de tener un día pesado. Pero esa no es la razón de este post, no, lo que sucede es que hoy supe algo a lo que todavía no se como reaccionar.
Verán, yo me crié con mis abuelos. Mi abuelo, tristemente ya falleció el 10 de Mayo de 2012. Pero hoy supe algo igual de malo.
Resulta que mi abuela tiene cáncer, al páncreas. Se lo diagnosticaron en diciembre del año pasado, pero solo mi madre, tío y hermana mayor sabían. Yo me acabo de enterar hace unos momentos.
La verdad es que aún no se que hacer.
Honestamente, no estoy de humor para escribir, ni mi mente, ni mi corazón están en ello. Por eso pido disculpas.
También voy a cambiar el estatus de todas mis historias incompletas a 'en espera', puesto que no estaré trabajando en ellas y sería deshonesto no hacérselo saber a mis lectores.
De nuevo, de verdad les pido disculpas.
Estaré fuera del radar un tiempo, podrían ser unos días, o podría solo ser esta noche, lo que sea que haga falta hasta que pueda aclarar mis pensamientos.
Solo les puedo prometer que volveré. Esto no es un adiós, es un 'hasta pronto'. Lo prometo.
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I just had a fairly heated argument with my mother. Nothing really serious, just the typical discussion when two people, living under the same roof, just had a rough day. But that's not the reason for this post, no, what happens is that today I learned something that I still don’t know how to react to.
You see, I grew up with my grandparents. My grandfather, who sadly died on 10 May 2012. But today I learned something as bad.
It turns out that my grandmother has cancer, pancreatic. It was diagnosed in December of last year, but only my mother, uncle and older sister knew. I just found out a few moments ago.
The truth is that I still don’t know what to do.
Honestly, I'm not in the mood to write, neither my mind nor my heart is in doing it. For that, I apologize.
I will also change the status of all my incomplete stories to 'on hiatus', since I will not be working on them and it would be dishonest not to let the readers know.
Again, I really apologize.
I'll be off the radar a while, could be a few days, or it could just be only tonight, whatever it takes until I can clarify my thoughts.
I can only promise you that I’ll be back. This is not goodbye, it's a 'see you soon'. I promise.
I understand and respect your decision. Furthermore I'm real sorry to hear about your grandmother.
take all the time you need I'm very sorry hear about your grandmother my family just lost my grandmother the liver cancer
I hope your grandmother gets better
I'm so sorry to hear that. You have all my sympathies. Do what you feel you need to. I would recommend going to see your grandmother, though I'm guessing that's in your plans already. My experience is that you'll want to remember them in a good way.
Im sorry to hear about your grandmother, take all the time you need.
I am sorry for you and your grandmother
i will not say that i am sorry, as it is an empty platitude that does no one any good...i will say that i understand, having lost my own father to cancer. take the time that u require, but do not focus ur thoughts toward sadness...focus instead on the joy uve felt with both ur grandparants over the course of ur life...if u can do this, u will be most fortunate, i was not able to, as i was often at odds with my father and we did not get along well...
i will also say, that if u require someone to rant at, well...some say that the path from inner turmoil, begins with a friendly ear...my ear is open...if u care to use it...
Condolencias, Wave, conozco el sentimiento. Tomate tu tiempo
~Nowhere Man~
To all of you, thank you.
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Thanks for the understanding, really appreciated.
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I'm sorry for your lost too, thanks for sharing your experience.
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I'm sorry, this is not gonna get better. All my family is at terms with it, it's only me the on who just discovered and is still adjusting. Thanks for the feeling.
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Thanks you, I live with her. I'm spending every time I can with her. It's not easy, but worth's it.
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I'll have too take some time, I can't write now. Thanks for taking your time.
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I'm sorry for your lost, I can't begin to thank you for sharing something like that. As I told to Mooncalf, I'm spending every moment I can with her, it actually helps to see her happy.
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Gracias amigo, te agradezco tu tiempo.
i understand , take all the time you need and i'm sorry about your grandmother , don't hesitate to PM me if you need to talk , i'll be here
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Thanks for the support, you have been a very good friend to me since we met, and I really appreciate that. I'm getting better, not enough to actually write yet, but better.
Thank you.