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Sunny Smile


I'm a pegasister! I love romance and comedy! Shippers unite!

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May
14th
2014

My Fu*king Stupid Love Life · 9:24pm May 14th, 2014

I have helped many with their love lives. None have helped me with mine. Hi. Do you know what it's like being in love with your best friend? Soooooooooooooooooooo I do. I sorta kinda need help. My friend has stolen my heart. I need help stealing his or getting mine back. Help?

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That's a difficult situation to be in. I won't lie to you. I'm not entirely sure how to help you. I can just lay out your options. You know this person better than I do, so you'll most likely know how he will react.

1. Outright tell him how you feel.

This can have different outcomes. It may depend on how you tell him, the occassion, or the mood he happens to be in. Personally, I prefer it when my friends tell me stuff outright. For example, one of my friends; I was trying to get him to watch MLP and perhaps a little forceful, but to try it out. Finally, he admitted to me that he just didn't care and didn't want to. I told him he should have told me from the beginning. If he had a crush on me, I would want him to tell me. (Of course if he did, he probably wouldn't considering that I have publicly announced I'm not interested in dating.)

What may happen to you is:

1. He rejects you, but you remain friends
2. He rejects you, but your friendship is now awkward and may shatter completely (I doubt this will happen.)
3. He gives it a shot.

Since, this is your friend. I can't say what will happen, but far as I know these are the only three options that can happen. Unless you want me to add that he rejects you and then murders you. Which is /highly/ unlikely.

2. You never tell him how you feel.

If this happens you'll most likely just hurt yourself, but these are somethings that may happen.

1. You keep it in too long that your friendship becomes strained and sooner or later you stop being friends. Maybe.

2. You keep it in, but eventually move past him. Someone else may have come into your life, or it was just a puppy crush. Didn't really mean anything.

I'm only trying to help. Not try to scare you. These are only possibilities that may happen. I don't know him, so I don't know what he will do. My greatest advice to you is.

Ask love experts.

These people could be your parents, another close friend, a counselor. Someone you can trust to help you. I'm not the best person for the job.

2114938 Thanks. You didn't scare me (much.). Any way, hahahahahahahhahahahahhahahahah Oh my god ask my parents? No way. They don't even think I know how $ex or what it is. Then I tell them I'm in love? Pffft no way. But thanks for the rest of the advice!

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Lol I did say /could/ be. Do you have any other friends there that could help you with this situation? Maybe a sibling. I ask my brother for advice all the time. (He says it unusually bunt sometimes, but it helps. My brother: the new element of honesty. )

2117152 Ha! Maybe your bro is Big Mac!

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Pfft! My brother? Doing all that hard work! That's laughable. There is a reason why his pony name is Game Tap. He does nothing but play video games all day. (Not that I'm much better.)

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