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SilverNotes


Senior Huevos fan (They/Them) Ko-Fi/Discord

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  • Friday
    I Almost Cried

    Note: The Ko-Fi has been flipped over to "July Expenses" and is... at 0%, because I am flat broke. 65% of that will get me out of the danger zone, and if I push things back one more time it will really be danger next month.

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  • 4 weeks
    Welcome To Rimworld: Storytellers

    Note: The "June Expenses" Ko-Fi is currently at 6% and I managed to overdraw at my bank... again. Getting to 16% will resolve that, and 43% or so should get me over the "I'm gonna get in trouble if I keep trying to push back these bills" hurdle. Anything beyond that is helpful, but not nearly as urgent.

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  • 8 weeks
    Guess Who Just Got ⋆.˚⟡ ࣪ ˖INJURED⋆.˚⟡ ࣪ ˖

    I'm going to keep this a short one, because of the nature of the aforementioned injury, but the nature of the injury is also why I thought a blog post was a good idea.

    Last night I managed to hurt myself in kitchen. A deep slice in one of my ring fingers. Lot of blood, and ultimately needed to be closed with some stitches when I got to Emergency.

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  • 8 weeks
    No Spoons, Only Knives

    Note: The Ko-Fi has been flipped over to "May Expenses," and is starting at 15%

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  • 14 weeks
    Welcome To Rimworld: Endgame

    Previous Rimworld blogs: Welcome To (A) Rimworld, Friends & Foes, Pawns Are King,

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Apr
14th
2023

Calling For Help: "Everypony's Teeth Are Bucked" · 4:00pm Apr 14th, 2023

With the state of the world, only a matter of time before I needed to get familiar with how GoFundMe works.

I've started one for a loved one needing dental surgery for both themselves and a beloved pet. In both cases, things are only going to get worse if not taken care of, and it costs money she doesn't have. She told me that the last time she tried to get help for something, she was shamed for it, and so gave me permission to make this only with great reluctance.

It's hard to ask for help, especially when you expect that you'll just be kicked when you're down instead of offered a hand up. It took insistence that I would handle things and she wouldn't have to directly deal with people at all to get her to give me the greenlight to try, and her expectations are so low they're underground thanks to that prior experience. But she's been backed into a corner, considered selling her car even though she needs it to get to her medical appointments, because it feels like she's out of options.

We're all struggling these days, but if you're able to spare a dollar or two, or even just willing to spread the word, I'm grateful.

(Not looking forward to getting my own teeth checked out. I'm overdue. But one crisis at a time, or in this case, two.)

I also wanted to say that, if you'd like to get some writing for your money, I'm opening the option to commission me and specify that the money go toward those bills rather than to me. It'll make me happy if I can put my writing ability to work for her sake.

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