They reported you first, so you FFXIV got banned · 8:03am Aug 24th, 2016
You could have left. You could have put up with the party longer. But instead you got salty and insulted your party, using what could reasonably be interpreted as an ethnic slur (regardless of how you actually meant it). You also apparently didn't report the discrimination you feel you've had, so why do you expect SE to do something about it?