guys, I have a serious question · 2:27am Oct 23rd, 2013
this is one of those blogs where I ask about life and shit, so bare with me.
First, you need some back ground:
So, a friend introduced me to someone that I've since become friends with, and instantly had feelings for. Romantic feelings. At the time, she had a boyfriend, so I didn't say anything. They broke up about 2 weeks later, leaving me thinking "HA, maybe this is my chance!", only for me to find out she still has feelings for one of my best friends from when they dated back in middle school.
all of this has happened in the past 8 weeks.
As of a week ago, she knows how I feel, and she told me that she didn't know me well enough, which is fine. I want to get to know her better as well.
She's been inviting me to different school functions (tennis match a couple of times, and the choir concert tonight) which I happily went to, just because it made her happy, even if I didn't want to go, I wanted to see her happy.
Tonight after the concert, I got her off to the side, saying I had to tell her something (which I did, I wanted to congratulate her on her performance), and almost kissed her, she said that she had to find her mom, and I started to walk off telling her that I would talk to her tomorrow. She insisted that I tell her, then she covered her mouth with her choir binder.
When I hesitated, she asked "Is that what you wanted?", I nodded slightly and walked away telling her that I'd talk to her later.
now for the question:
What should I do? Should I continue trying, or should I just give up?
go for it!! keep trying!
1444835 I don't think that's not a good idea after all.
She sent me this while we were talking after I posted the blog:
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Don't keep pursuing it.
Listen m8, there is no point in going after one person thinking that they're the perfect person for you. If they ARE the perfect person for you, then you will both know it and there won't be any doubts in either of your minds. She said that she's not the right one for you, so just set your sights on another target or something.
1444918 I'm not sure she meant it though. She's under a lot of stress. She's just getting settled in to life as a high schooler, has tennis, choir, and anything she has to do outside of school.
I think I just pushed too far, too fast.
She asked if we could still be friends, and of course I said yes, so I'll wait, and see where it goes.
If she ends up dating someone else, I'll be sad, but I'll support her.
And rip the fucker to pieces if they hurts her.