In case I'm wrong · 2:49am Mar 23rd, 2012
If I'm wrong and someone out there does care; I need a shoulder. My brother, whose 15, is driving my mother to an early grave. That sounds melodramatic and like I'm just bitchin, but It's true and I need to let it out or I'm likely to snap. I don't think I've ever seen him listen or say he loves his family and the worst part is; I can't do a damn thing about it. I know this situation isn't unique and there are other people with equally demonic-acting siblings. If whoever ends up reading this happens to know someone who has had a situation like this and got through it, please, I could use some advice and this isn't the kind of thing I can bring up to people I know. If no one knows anything like this then please pray, or your equivalent. And yes I know this sounds like bitching and whining.
God bless all of ya, Quackmanbrony
Wow i really dont know what to say that could help, ive known family s that have had unbearable children ive come to expect some humans can show the worst of us you just have to think as soon as they afe of legal age thay can be kicked out making a home livable again. Also sorry bro ive been running on a lack of sleep hope things get better for you and your family
~NeverKnown
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Every little bit helps and as horrible as he is he's my brother. I like to think that he'll have an epiphany or something and he'll realize that he's gotta change. Unfortunately, even talking to him about his attitude is like slamming your head against a brick wall repeatedly. Now despite everything I've said I can understand being upset with family, but his anger is irrational. And he already has plans to leave when he's 18, but three more years of this is likely going to have some serious repercussions on our mother. She's lived through one seizure and I don't have a lot of confidence that she'll live through another.
And I know I have no right or reason telling ya this NK. I'm sure you have your own crap and ya don't need some random nobody laying stuff on you.
41291 I wanted you to know i consider you a friend even if we've never met if ya ever need someone to chat with hit me up on skype ill be an open ear
~also your not a nobody
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Well I sincerely appreciate it man.
And saying I'm a nobody atleast makes me sound useful.
I've never experienced what you're going through, but I have been through a lot. One thing I can say is Don't give up, ever. If you give up you're going to go spiraling down an endless hole. Don't give up, keep trying. "Its always darkest before dawn."
I know pain, send me a message if you need to talk.
I wish you the best.
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If he really starts to get to me I can leave but our mom can't so I'm more worried about her. She's had one seizure caused by crazy amounts of stress and he doesn't care in the slightest. He keeps saying he wishes he could live somewhere else and I'm afraid he's gonna get his wish. And I didn't say this before but he's also never met his dad. Yes I know that is a cause of some of the anger and from what we've been told about him; he doesn't sound like the "fatherly type". Does that stop him from blaming her? Not at all and there have been others in his life who have acted like a father to him. I'm sure it's not the same, but I wish he could just learn a little respect and patience.
And thank you. It's almost enough to make a guy tear up.