Dealing with a massive creep

All this time and my first blog post. I rather not do these as of now because I feel like no one would notice and I would just be writing into the void. Well, here goes anyway.

I'm upset for a couple of reasons. The main reason I'm upset is that as of 12/16/2022, a man sent me unsolicited dick pics. This did not happen on this website, but rather, on Quora. That website is supposed to be for questions and answers, in a way, like how Yahoo! Answers used to be long ago. It also seems to count as social media, sites I normally avoid otherwise. No Facebook and no Twitter for me. It wasn't long ago I was dealing with creeps on Quora asking me for private pictures. But then this cunt just ups and sends me his dick pics on the first (and hopefully last) message. I did reported him to site staff, but I don't have my hopes up that they'll actually do anything about this. At least the staff on this website seem to act quickly, like the times I reported a couple of bot accounts commenting on my stories with weird links. It's like they never existed once the mods were done.

At this rate, I'll probably just end up disabling people being able to PM on Quora if this is the kind of stuff that's going to keep happening. But hey, I'm almost 35 years old and I can now say, I am in fact, a woman online. Okay, womanhood isn't defined by creeps coming after you, but it does mean I now have that shared experience with other women. Full disclosure, I'm a transwoman. My Quora user name mentions translesbian (among other things) below it. I also have a female cartoon avatar with a female user name (not my real name). I guess creeps see female and think I'm a prize to be won. And I don't want to single out men with this, although this specific form of behavior is likely far more likely done by them. Almost a decade ago when I was on Skype with a male name, I would sometimes get messages from women wanting me to join their porn sites. This was long before OnlyFans was a thing or at least popular. Although women don't seem to send unsolicited pics nearly as often because they tend to have some shame unlike the men who do this with absolutely zero shame about sending their genital pictures to complete strangers.

The 2nd, lesser reason is with the group Positive Ponies. Now I recall being invited to the group, not sure by who, very shortly after I signed up for this website. I have noticed over time that threads that seem even remotely negative will get deleted. Threads that had several replies, including ones I replied to more than once, just completely dusted from existence. Earlier I made a thread about what happened to me, trying to keep the angle on finding comfort and positivity from others out of this situation. I checked a couple of hours later, gone. Probably deleted long before then.

Look, I get it, groups have their rules on top of the sitewide rules. If they want to delete threads and not explain to the OP why, they can. Doesn't mean I have to put up with it. So I left. I haven't been reading my inbox messages for so long anyway. Now there were some nice threads to read, but that doesn't make up for how I feel about threads ceasing to exist. So they can keep doing their thing, I just don't want anymore part of it. Any groups I join on this site, I rather them just straight up tell you if you did something against their rules and preferably not delete the threads. I believe they can lock them. At least that way the discussion is not just completely gone.

Edit: I was contacted by the group older. I'm... conflicted. Like, I have my reasons to be upset. This was just the perfect storm of things happening around the same time and adding up. Dealing with social issues has always been a big weakness for me. This is just going to be a lifelong process.