Do whatever you want, live without any doubt !

In our working lives, we often encounter all sorts of troubles, and emotions such as sadness, anxiety, and worry come one after another, forcing you to step by step into unhappiness. It is especially important to develop a good mindset. Today, I share with you four simple but practical life mindsets so that you can have a strong heart and get rid of all your worries and unhappiness. I hope this article will be of help to you.

1 Be grateful for every moment in the present

I used to complain about what troubles I had today and how bad my life was, but I didn't realize that it was actually a blessing to have someone around to comfort me and encourage me when I spilled it out. I should be grateful for the fact that I can sit down and eat properly every day, for the nice day, and for the cute puppy I met on the way. Then I tried not to think that these moments were meant to be, and never thought that life was supposed to be like this, making them as special as my troubles. If it's not easy to understand, you can think of it like this:

"The fact that I can finish this article without any problems and that you in front of the screen can read it carefully while a disaster is happening somewhere in the world is a blessing in itself"

By knowing this, we can exist safely and now and not have to worry about the future.

2 It is possible to regret the past, but never let regret fill the present

"If only I could go back in time and do it all over again", we often hear in our lives. Because we will always have more or less regrets about the past. But I don't let myself think that way. Now that I've come to the present, I'll try to make the best of the future and not repeat the same mistakes. If one regrets it from time to time, it will definitely lower one's confidence and expectations for the future.

Suppose you didn't get into a good university, then finish your studies in the present with the utmost seriousness and enrich yourself; suppose you have missed someone, then cherish the person you meet now twice as much. When I was watching a TV series earlier, there was a line that struck me.

“Winter misses the verdant summer, and summer will miss the snowy and glacialpure winter.”

Yes, even if you go back in time, you are not guaranteed to have the most satisfying experience, so it is better to inject all your energy into the present and live in the present moment in a practical manner.

3 Destroying bad luck with more luck

I often have the thought that when I feel unlucky in something, there must also be another aspect that makes me feel lucky.

For example, although the dormitory is on the 6th floor and it is tiring to climb up, luckily my roommates are very nice and I am happy to live in such a dormitory, so what does it matter if I am tired. Or I forgot to bring something with me when I left home in the morning, but luckily I didn't have to wait in a long queue to buy the cake I've been craving for today, so I was super happy. I'm exhausted from all the events I've been to, but I've met so many interesting people, it's worth it! Sometimes life is like this, think on the bright side and you will find that many of life's blessings are actually all around us, we just lack the eyes to spot them.

Pain in life stimulates us more, so we always think of the bad, just turn it around and look at things in a good light and you will feel more happiness. When you are more able to perceive the good fortune in your life, you will have mastered the secret of happiness and most of the unhappiness will be replaced by happiness.

4 Maintain confidence and courage

Although it is difficult to be a very confident person, and we feel nervous in most situations where we need to exude confidence, at least we should not run away. When faced with a new challenge, replace "how to avoid it" with "how to do it well"; when presented with a rare opportunity, muster up the courage to overcome it. You will find that confidence and bravery are the enablers of our success.

I'm sure we've all heard the joke: "As long as you're not embarrassed, it's others who are embarrassed", and there's truth in that. This is because people are always attracted to confident people and the mistakes they make are more likely to be overlooked. Don't be afraid to pluck up the courage to present yourself in front of an audience that we may meet once in a lifetime on stage. I believe that confidence allows us to get better opportunities and courage makes it easier to make changes.

Thank you for reading this article from start to last, and I hope we all live happily on our journey of growth!

Finally, one more rant.
"It's never wrong to be bold to do those things that make you happy".