Love? · 5:15am Jul 9th, 2016
My past relationships were anything but perfect, and this relationship isn't perfect either but close to it, but I can honestly say that he is worth the wait, I just hope/pray he realizes just how he really feels about me, I don't know how much more of feeling lonely I can take.
Everyone has their own idea of what love is supposed to be like or what they want in a relationship, and the movies don't help. People show love in different ways. To me it's the hugs/kisses, being silly, knowing that you can be yourself around them, it's feeling comfortable with them, it's the good morning and goodnight text that shows you that you're the first/last person that they think of, it's all the random texts through out the day, it's staying up late or all night just so you can talk to them, it's staying on the phone with them till they get home, it's both people giving 100 percent not 50, it's being there for each other through the good and bad times, it's the playfulness along with being serious and it's so much more.
Someone asked me recently why I give him so many chances? I think it's because I love him and cant imagine my life without him, it's his hugs/kisses, it's the way I melt into his arms, it's his touch, smell, voice, it's him. He's sweet, funny, weird, and smart. He loves his family and mine, he's been by my side through everything and puts up with me even with all my insecurities. I hope to be with him for the rest of my life.
The ancient Greeks called love “the madness of the gods.” Modern psychologists define it as the strong desire for emotional union with another person. But what, actually, is love. It means so many different things to different people.
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