Big life update and shit · 5:24am Sep 6th, 2012
I know not a lot of people will read this or care but I just want this to get this off my mind.
Me and my GF had a talk today about me and her and she wanted to talk about.. Sex with me and her. I told her I don't want to jump right into it I want to take it easy I don't want to jump to sex when we have only been dating for about 3 weeks... I think Anyway It makes me think.. If we did have sex.. I think that will be the end for us me and her. And I don't want to jump to the sex right away. And my sister won't leave me alone about it saying. "Oh your Girlfriend is a whore if she want to have sex with you blah blah."
like I said before. me and this girl knew each other for about 2 years now. We just started going out like 3 weeks ago. And now she want's to talk about this kind of stuff and seeing that she is my only friend at school I don't want to have sex with her. And then it's over and we never talk to each other again.. Then I have no one at school to talk to.
and a lot of my friends. Like I said I don't want to do it. My dick is telling me " FUCK YEA FUCK YEA."
But my emotions are saying. "Don't do it just to say you had sex with her. It's not the right thing to do."
Let's say I did have sex with her.... What's next in the relationship? We already jumped to the sex and then it's like: "fuck... What do you do now?"
I like where I am with her right now. We cuddle, Watch MLP, Play games, I like where I am right now. I will never jump into the sex just for sex because then it has no meaning to it at all. Ill finally do it with her when I feel that i'm ready for that next step..... And yes I'm going to use protection I'm not stupid.
....... And I have not worked on part 13 as you can tell a lot of stuff is happening in my life right now.
well how old are you and how old is your GF?
339801
Me and her are 17
340107 just wait one year for sex.
Yes wait for the sex for some time but maybe a compromise can be rached somwhere in the middle? Foreplay stuff only so that she can be satisfied for now and it will give you real time to make sure your ready.
well, wait. till your 1 year anniversary.not because of the legal consent thing. you two are young and I've seen it happen again and again. infatuated couple have at each other like heated dogs in a walmart parking lot and then they're done, and the infatuation starts to ware off. the two slowly (relative to how well the two cope) start to drift apart because there's no more excitement. nothing more to look forward too. sex is the closest connection two people can make physically. there's only one first time "together" and 17 year old? being tied down could become a living hell when it's not too exiting. so if you want the relationship to be long term, control your lust to enhance on your love. make both kinds of desire be what makes you think of her but that's just my opinion...
and no part 13. hmmm. I'll have to burn your house down for that