life issues

well, basically the title says it all, lets just put it this way, people who i once considered grandparents have continuously talked crap about my mom, i asked them to stop, they did, for a few days,then where right back at it. after, lets call him "bob", bob told my mom to shut up, while talking to my doctor about what my treatment plan for my cancer would be, a week after "bob" asked my cancer specialist about getting rid of my dog, i was about to say something. a few days later, lets call her jane, jane was talking to my mom on the phone, and my mom had the phone on speaker, and for what ever reason brought up donating bodies to science and asked my mom if that was something she planed for me. Now, bob and jane have been pessimistic from the very beginning, so when i asked jane about it, she lied and said she didn't say that, when i told her that my mom had the phone on speaker, she lied and said "well, you miss heard me" and then, i told them that i didn't like them mistreating my mom, trying to get rid of my dog, damning alcohol drinking (im 23 and i have cancer, i'm going to have a drink if i want a damn drink). so they cut all ties, and decided to lie to my friends, and tell them that i cut ties with them, lied about my mom, who paid for the gas to st Louis, and such, and i think i very well lost a friend or two over this. with my upcoming stem cell transplant, this is the very last thing i need, and there will be a hiatus on all stories for the time being.