Oct
15th
2014
Too Many Rules... · 6:13am Oct 15th, 2014
I don't know what to do...
Rule 3: Don't apologize or accept apologizes.
This rule I have followed for nearly 5 years. But my ex-girlfriend deserves one.
I was the one that fucked up... And I am able to tell her through out my resolve.
But I don't know how to do it.
Did I forget how to?
Every time I about to tell her, I freeze up. My mind goes blank...
Am I a bad guy for this?
I don't know anymore.
It's eating me away. I just don't know what to do anymore...
I have been trying to for 3 months now. I guess I did forget how to.
(This is my problem and I don't expect anyone to reply)
I have a different set of rules. Maybe rule 4 will help you. Please listen, understand, and know that I am not preaching. I am simply trying to pass on wisdom as I see it.
Rule #4: There is power in forgiveness. Power to heal. In forgiveness you grant, and moreso in forgiveness you receive.
This rule applies to sincere apologies only.
I really how this is as useful to you as it is to me.
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I've been thinking to what you have said all day, and something came to my mind.
I don't really have too many rules to go by. But I could make a new rule.
Rule 5: I could break a rule once every 2 years.
The only thing that is bugging me now is how to apologies to her?
Thank you for your help. I really do appreciate it.
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That all depends on how you have wronged her. I am not asking for you to divulge that here, as I am sure it is personal. I only say that so that you will think on it. Consider what you did, and start from there to find the correct way to apologize. Only you can truly find the way.
Beware my rule #2: Unintended consequences. Every action you take has unintended consequences, things you don't expect.
This rule is true in all that we do.
Sorry if I seem cryptic. You just seem to be in a place where you need wisdom, which is usually found within ourselves.