Well… Wasn't Ready For That… · 6:45am Jul 7th, 2022
Hey, Folks…
I'm kinda bummed that this is the first blog that I'll be writing in over a month, but I need a place to write, and I don't want to risk people in my immediate circle finding out about this over social media before the family is ready to post about it themselves. It’s a different kind of post…
So those of you that have been following me long enough know that I’ve had at least one heart transplant (and cancer, which is what the tagged story is about, but not what the focus of this blog is)— if you’re only seeing this blog because of the tagged story (or you’re just a newer follower), then you may not know I had a second one a few years ago. I’ve never been shy about my medical history; in fact, I’ve offered myself up as someone to talk to if anyone in a similar situation needs to vent to someone. It’s always helpful to have a support system of people you can relate to.
That said, my circle just went down a number today; one of my heart transplant friends… he just died out of the blue. For those of you who’ve read Through Crimson Eyes, it’s who Inkwell was inspired by. He was 26. Way too young. But he’d had three heart transplants, and from the start he and his family weren’t happy with the most recent heart. It started deteriorating in ways that are normal for transplants, but usually don’t occur until much later. Anyway…
He was my little bro. He’d talk to me when he needed to, ask for help when he needed to… He was my roommate when I had my first transplant in 1996. He was just an infant at the time. We’ve been through a lot together, for literally his entire life.
And then just like that…… poof.
I’m sure there are plenty of people that have had a friend or family member pass away completely out of the blue. But this is different. When the thing that ties you together in life is potentially the same thing that can pull you away in death… When it happens to one…
It makes you wonder what may happen to the other.
And when.
So if you don’t see me being active for a while… you’ll know why.
Until next time.
— LD
Yes, you may comment about the reference if you want.
Sorry for your loss.
Please be as well as you can.
Sorry for your loss - take the time you need to be better.
So sorry to hear that.
Take all the time you need to.
Much love.
There’s been a lot of work in removing cells from a heart leaving a frame to hopefully build a new heart on from the persons cells. Here’s hoping they figure it out relatively fast.
I wish I knew what to say for your loss. Honestly I’m not sure I ever handled my own that well. Take the time you need.
Aww. Sorry for your loss. *snugs*
I am so sorry, brother. I wish there was something I could say to ease your pain, but it would just be platitudes. Just know I'm here if you need anything, and you and your friend will be in my prayers.
Stay awesome, my dude.
I’m sorry for you losing your friend, Dash. I know it’s difficult when someone close to you passes. Remember I’m here for you. Take care of yourself, please.
Oh, dear; my condolences, to you and his family.
And good luck.
I'm sorry for your loss.
My condolences for your loss.
Oh wow, I’m so sorry. Take the time you need. Let us know if we can help in any way.
Make sure to talk to your circle of support. I hope you can find comfort with them. A similar thing happened to my cousin a few years ago. It's faith in God and joy in her art that keeps her going, even though she could pass any day for about the last 15 years. Enjoying life despite what troubles come our way. It can be a hard thing, but the people who do are some of the nicest and most inspiring you'll ever meet.
My condolences. I wish I had more to say other than the standard. Take care of yourself too.