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TheMysteryMuffin


she/her. Doing better. I love my friends :3

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  • 8 weeks
    Hope everyone had a good Easter

    I managed to see my UK boyfriend on Easter Sunday. He was feeling a little down, so I decided to surprise him.

    I've already shared this story on Discord, so sorry for those who have heard it already! :twilightblush:

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  • 17 weeks
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  • 17 weeks
    Suicide

    I think I'm done with life now. No matter what I do, no matter what I say, no matter what I believe in, no matter what I chose, someone is always unhappy with me.

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  • 17 weeks
    Oh FUCKING fantastic

    Great, so it's getting worse. I thought the situation was dropped, but for whatever fucking reason the people involved in a recent false post about me thought "hey, I didn't spread enough BS about this user who did NOTHING wrong. Let's post some more". Clearly, I've learnt the hard way not to say anything about my personal life freely, because two users have now spread lies and false rumours

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  • 22 weeks
    Hope you all had a good Christmas

    Just wanting to say that I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas and I wish you a happy new year. Thanks for supporting what I do, especially since I have plans regarding writing for 2024.

    Wishing each and everyone of you well.

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Mar
21st
2018

Hurtful Comments (all sorted now!) · 1:32pm Mar 21st, 2018

UPDATE: This has all been sorted now and is a thing of the past. I will leave it here though, for future issues. Thanks again for everyone's support and I hope that we can work together to make FiMfiction a safer place. :twilightsmile:


Recently, I have been receiving verbal abuse and hurtful comments from users who I don't wish to mention. To protect my identity, I will no longer be known as Doctor_Twilight or TheMysterious, but I will now be known as TheMysteryMuffin. I'm sorry that I've had to change my name again, but this has been going on long enough and it's making me sick.

I will also change my user page. The projects will go ahead, and so will further events. Sorry again for this. Please be respectful to one another and I hope to see you soon. I love my followers (they are family) and I wish to no longer see any offensive or bad language between you all. I will also train myself to not swear as much, as I know that is wrong of me to do.

UPDATE: Also, I never mean to be horrible as well. If I am then I'm truly sorry. I was a little angry towards this user, so I wish to apologise to her if I was rude and I never meant it. I never want to be mean, so from the deepest part of my heart, I am truly sorry.

If any of you receive any hurtful comments, then please report it. I cannot stress it enough.

Yours faithully,

TheMysteryMuffin
(or your friend Doctor_Twilight)

Comments ( 25 )

I see. I was clueless when I saw your user page. Hopefully, the abuse will stop now. I have no idea what you might be going through

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Sorry to hear that. I hope that things turn out better now.

Thanks, guys. It's better when there're people to hang out with. I will take extra care who I talk to.

I never understood why people wants to be hurtful to others, I mean what's the point; to make yourself feel better? Or to make yourself seem more important? It's useless and meaningless to insult others just for the sake of hurting them, and that take part in this and even enjoy this are no better than monsters.

Also, I have decided to take a break from FiMfiction for a while, so that I can come back in a few weeks time "fresh" and moved on from all of this. So you won't see me for a while, sorry. I will write privately off FiMfiction, so that I can get away from all of this.

Thanks to everyone who's either supported me or been against me. You're all important people; let's not forget that. :fluttershysad:

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As long as you are not alone and have people that appreciates you, you don't have to fear those hurtful comments because you know that deep down there are people that cares about you.

That's a shame. Have a peaceful and productive break and my best wishes.

I wanted to answer on your other blog entry from yesterday, but now it's gone..... So I'm asking what I wanted to ask there, here:

Why are you friends with Evictus and supportive of him? That's something where you got some explaining to do.

i was going to look at the blog to see your answear on the onther blog but did i say anything hurt full
? and sorry your going through this

That is very unfortunate to hear. I can say for myself that cyber bullying sucks. Since I have an active YouTube account, I naturally occasionally receive critical, negative and sometimes borderline nasty comments. It doesn't really affect me that much because I've grown to become resilient towards people who treat me like that, but I find it especially painful when I see the same thing happening to someone I care about. If someone insults me or my content, I usually brush it off and ignore it, but when I see the same thing happening to someone else, particularly younger and more vulnerable than myself, I'm not going to lie, it hurts. I'm sorry to hear you've been going through that. You have my support, and I hope for the best of you.

Firstly, this wasn't all this user's fault. It was my fault for commenting in the first place. I feel bad for having a go at people and I feel sorry for it. Evictus has also raised the issue, so I thank him for that. Thank for the support and I'm sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings. I take everything horrible I've said back. I mean it. I love you guys (in a friendly way) and I will treat people with more respect.

Thank you and stay awesome!

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I think I read one of his "best" stories. I just got carried away, again I take everything horrible I said back and I apologise to the users I lashed out at after they attacked him. It was completely the wrong thing to do and I'm so sorry for hurting anyone's feelings.

It's time to move on and be positive from now. Thank you for asking and I wish you the best for the future.

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No, you didn't hurt my feelings. I have no hate for anyone anymore (this all happened yesterday). I will be more careful what I say and I will be a changed person from now on.

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I'm still fairly new to the online world. It was my mistake to lash out.

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I didn't see you lash out anywhere. I have no knowledge about what happened, to the extent that I don't even understand why this blog entry here was written.

My question was asked out of sincere interest and curiosity. Why do you have such a high opinion of Evictus?

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I guess because (before I had an account) I read them and they were probably the first stories I've read. In fact, he was the first author I gained interest in. I wish not to give an opinion anymore because I don't want a repeat of what happened yesterday. I won't be so snappy anymore from now on. I will move on from this, as a different person.

Evictus has sorted everything out and there's no longer a serious problem. I won't interfere with those people who attacked him or myself again. It's time to move on. Smile! Be happy!

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For me?
I don't get the abuse! :twilightsheepish:

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I was talking about MysteryMuffin. Sorry for the confusion.

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I see. Still, I will tell you this:

Evictus is a known troll "author" who writes intentionally bad "stories" because he finds it funny to troll naive people who keep believing him when he says that he is Trying™ and Doing His Best™ and that he will Improve™ and who try to help him become better.
He should have been banned long ago (he only got one ineffective one-day ban, because he put up a user picture that glorified nazis and that was it), but for some reason, the mods have an interest to keep him around on FIMFiction.
I'm sorry that your first author you read ponyfics from is him. And even with that, you shouldn't defend him.
Evictus is a troublemaker. Better search for another first author and pretend you never read any of Evictus' "stories".

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We all make mistakes, and none of us are perfect. Quoting off the song from MLP "We're not flawless." I think it helped that I was expecting criticism for my channel since right before I even started it, and so I was mentally prepared for it. So I know how to be resilient and just ignore it, and I usually forget about the insult just a few minutes later. One of the first things I learned when getting more active online, if someone is insulting you or leaves a nasty comment, whatever you do, don't, reply to it!

Replying to a rude comment is the best way to end up in an argument, and I've lost count of the amount of arguments I've avoided by not commenting or replying to rude people online. If they insult you, and they realise you're not paying any attention to them, they'll usually realise they're wasting their time and leave you alone.

Another thing I've developed a high tolerance for is swearing, something you said in your last post that you absolutely despise. I was raised in a family that hates swearing, and I don't really swear myself... much. However, a lot of people I know swear a lot, and it's something I've just learned to ignore, especially since it's practically impossible to go anywhere without hearing someone cussing. I have friends and family who swear, I have favourite YouTubers who swear, and there's swearing in my favourite movies. While I don't really swear myself that much, profanity is just something I've had to learn to accept and ignore. Now the only time profanity gets to me is if I hear something like the F word being said by someone who doesn't usually say it, then I'm caught by surprise, but 9 times out of 10, I ignore it. If you don't like profanity, I'd encourage you to do the same, especially since you can't stop anyone from swearing, no matter how much you may want to.

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Oh my. I didn't know about that. I guess we all make mistakes; I like to forgive.

Again, I won't be so judgmental from now on about other people's stories. I will only write reviews to stories I like from now on, because I don't want to hurt anyone. I won't get involved in anything "offensive". Already, I have discovered Nazi groups on FiMfiction, but I didn't comment or join. I'm leaving the members of the group to it. I have already blocked a user who offended some gay bronies a few months ago or so.

Everything's good again and I'm happy to be writing once more on FiMfiction. I have no opinion on Evictus' comments, so I will leave it at that.

Thanks for the warning though; it's very difficult to trust anyone these days. Please let me know if I'm in trouble or I'm doing something wrong. I will try to be a better person and I will also not comment on his user page anymore.

Yours,
TheMysteryMuffin :heart:

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You have a very good point. Thanks to teaching me. I will learn from my mistakes. I especially won't reply to hateful comments; besides, I've had to deal with cyber-bullying before.

Let this all be in the past now and we can move on swiftly. Stay awesome and I give peace for you and your family. I will also lose the bad language and attitude; I want to be a better person online. Again, thank you.

TheMysteryMuffin.

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No problem. Everything I have said has just come from both the way I was raised, but also just from personal experience, so I feel like I know what I'm talking about.

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