Vore as a Humilation Fetish · 11:33pm Jan 26th, 2018
I’ve been investigating my sexuality and I’ve discovered that my vore and death fetishes are almost completely based in humiliating the prey. I can’t believe I didn’t notice it before.
(Note: lots of candy in this one; not tantric)
I started thinking about it since I don’t have a girlfriend and I noticed I would feel shame when I would see guys that are able to hang around cute girls (barefoot) like it’s no big deal and get no special satisfaction out of it that I would. It made me feel unworthy I guess and embarrassed. The shame made me curious more than anything though, and I knew that those people didn’t know about my shame so I had no one else to be embarrassed to.
When I entered puberty I had a very extreme phobia of being barefoot because I was humiliated that I was making myself like prey and I didn’t want anyone to see me. I was disturbed by the idea of men being eaten, for example I had a dream about some men in suits being eaten which bothered me for days.
The point is, I saw the prey as being more outgoing, shameless, less-clothed, and more fun than I was. Girls were certainly like that, sometimes I would see girls do something like play in the rain barefoot and I would think that they should know what they’re doing (feel humiliated), but they didn’t seem to. Theoretically, they would need a humiliation fetish themselves to be able to switch to my perspective.
So, let’s get into examples of how vore can represent shame. Let’s say a girl is put into a cage to be fed to a snake. Everyone gets to watch how she is helpless. She will try to get away, she will futilely kick her legs, feet, and toes, all of it a highly humiliating position to be in. And death gives the whole situation a super humiliating context, especially if it’s in some way her fault for being careless.
Here is a rough draft of how I would say it works. I want them to have empathy (understand) and align with my shame, not necessarily sympathy. The prey with a humiliation fetish is excited to empathy this shame. I project myself to the prey’s perspective of humiliation and thus I have a fetish for humiliation myself, as if I am them.
As my fanfic readers might agree, I am pretty good at illustrating my fetish and humiliating girls. It can be used to attract women theoretically. However I’m not outgoing and don’t have anything going on. If I ever do a get a girlfriend though, at least I have a basis for explaining my fetishes so that I can feel understood. I think most girls would be okay with exploring my fetishes with me.
It’s kind of funny that sexual shame ended up being my favorite most coveted experience in my life. Since it has been fun, I’m still hoping this fetish will work out for me since it’s kind of natural. Anyway that’s my current analysis that I am documenting for posterity in case anyone also wants to crack the case of their sexuality.
For me vore was always about being dominated, to be owned and helpless, to be literally no more important to the pred as just another meal
I think there’s a bit of a misconception when people try to explain vore as a simply domination/ submission relationship so that the layman can understand it. They are trying to imply that the pred wants to be high on power-tripping while the prey wants to be fucked over because their self-worth is in the toilet. This is not what is happening in a sexy humiliation fetish. Both the pred and prey are mutually channeling the prey’s humiliation and the pred is just playing his role to act out the situation.
If we’re talking about the kind of domination where the pred is a hard ass about being respected or something, then I feel like we’re moving away from erotic bliss because the pred is too dense to empathize with any humiliation he is causing. I would feel the same way about prey that just wants to serve or worship a superior being because being willing to do that is not humiliating in and of itself. There needs to be a desire for sexual shame and embarrassment.
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Hey absentia
That sounds like a kind of sexual humiliation to me. He owns you, it’s intimate, and he gets to humiliate you by seeing you as no more than a meal. I like it. If I am off base, I’m unsure exactly why you want to be owned and helpless. Maybe you could explain in-depth.
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Well I can't think of a greater level of intimacy than to literally become a part of someone more powerful than your self, all form of control stripped from me, the helplessness, and no matter how much I want it, I know the instinct to survive will kick in, and I would struggle to do so, which just makes me want it more, to be honest I've never really thought about why, as in really thought about it, but I guess humiliation is a bigger part of it than I originally thought, and now the more I think about it, the more it makes sense.
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Oh yeah, well in that case, “losing control” is not something I would see as a fetish, but rather a tool to increase your level of fear. Just as in Schoolhouse Vore, once you’re feeling a high degree of fear, you give yourself permission to use your mind in new ways, realign priorities, and go deeper into erotic states.
A large part of my intention with Schoolhouse Vore was to reveal the hand of your fears and voila – by now you have already passed them, processed them, and spit them out. That means that you have already advanced your sexuality and don’t need fear as permission as much. I didn’t do anything special; all I did was vomit all my deepest fears on everyone for their own interpretation.
Now that I think about it, the prey's second wind of survival instincts is for adding to the humiliation.