Life changing stuff · 1:39pm Sep 7th, 2016
Yup. I'm 99% sure now. I'm going to make a serious decision.
I'm 20 years old now... and as some may know, we moved to Hungary a couple of months ago. And... well, it's not what I had in mind.
Sure, the weather is fine (to hot for me though) the nature is beautiful, and the bar is a fun place to work.
But it was my parents decision. They love it here. They wanted to move out of Belgium. This is there dream....
And after a long thought and a lot of work.... This is not MY dream...
I can't see myself doing this work for 10 years or longer. I utterly despise the language and there is not a single crap to do here in this village.
Don't misunderstand me... it's not bad... it's just not... my idea of a ''wonderful life''
And thus, I am considering moving out. On my own. Away from Hungary. I still want some more time to think about it. Doing some research, making plans, eg....
But what fears me is ... how I'm going to tell this to my parents! I don't want them to laugh at me and neither do I want to disappoint them.... well.... I know if I can bring it right, they'll support me... but until then... I gonna do research.
Aaaaaaand. I already have a destination in mind. GREAT BRITAIN!
Why? well... why not? My English is way better then my French (and french is supposed to be my second language) I don't want to go back to Belgium, I hate learning an other language, Great Britain has somewhat the same weather conditions as Belgium (which was just right for me) the people are nice, the environment is also great... and they pay an electrician just right! (I'm an electrician and they don't earn a lot of money here)
So... yeah. I think Great Britain is right for me. (Considering Canada and USA to far away)
And besides.... the most beautiful, charming and kindest woman I know lives there. :3
So.... yeah...
But anyways, it's still an idea and it needs some more thought. And if I'd move to Great Britain, it'd be after next summer.
Also, if any of you have some tips, ideas, thoughts, please let me know. All help is welcome!
Thank you all.
Derec
Out.
Hai. I reccomend first that you find a place somewhere in GB. Like an apartment or something first, or a job or at least a job interview. Then you have to sitt down with your parents and explain it. Ask for them to be quiet until you have told them everything. Say that you know somebody there and so on.
That's amazing! And you really shouldn't worry bout what your parents think. If you're 20 you're well over the age where they can tell you what to do with your life
I'm glad you're going to follow your dream!
4196822 alright. Thanks. I've already been looking for a job (and I found a few good ones) and I'll keep an eye for residents. Thank you so much :3
4196846 thanks. I had the choice to stay in Belgium half a year ago. But they kinda convinced me to move along with them.
4196862 not really a dream either.... well, at least in the direction off.
4196867 Fair enough, but good luck. You're brave
4196879 thank you :3
I just hope it will work out a little
4196882 Yeah, me too
4196884 thanks for the support
4196863 I see
4196892 yeah... so I hope they still feel the same about supporting me
4196894 hope so
4196888 You're welcome
4196896 yup
4196897 thanks
4196900 You're welcome again, friend
4196904 :)
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4196863 Hey it's not a problem!
If you still have an EU pass, you can go there for free!
4197186 ... no, what I understood of it is that I don't need a visa. I still need some papers, nin-card, a job and a place to live. It will cost some money.
4197018 :) still, I appreciate it.
Hey, don't you live in Great Britain?
4198400 I mean...I'm just saying. Easier to still move now before they get out of the EU.
4198580 I know. That's why I want to move next September
4198708 They will probably not be in the EU in a year.
4198720 still. I can't just leave now. They're counting on me for next summer.
4198726 I know...
4198728 so.... next September.
4198752 Ok...what if I could visit you? ;)
4198786 then we could hang out
4198400 No. I live nowhere near GB, I live in your next-door country. Slovenia
4199063 oh right XD
Sorry
4198813 True
4200475 It's fine
4200993 lol.
4327262 I know.....