I gotta get a better real life. · 2:03pm Mar 27th, 2015
I hate to say it but this depression is really kicking my ass. Its weird you know, I've got so many real life friends I barely have time for them all but I still get so lonley.
On more adult notes, got invited to more swingers clubs and have had more married women offer to sleep with me. That was a few of my friends solutions to me being upset that I'm single. Apparently they think I'll show up, have sex with a bunch of girls I don't know, and then either like one of them enough to stop caring about excusivity or when we date then work out the rules of only seeing each other. I'm really starting to wonder if long term monogomus relationships are even possible anymore in the modern world. Its almost like sex ruins everything. You know what I would like? A woman who will watch cartoons, and will keep her clothes on for more then 10% of the day. Ones who's idea of a good time isn't an orgy. I also wish people would stop saying that being under 30 is still plenty young to date. Trust me, when you go years at a time without relationships, under 30 feels more like 95 on the dating scene.
I really need to find a better outlet then this blog
I'm sorry to hear this, being 16 years of age I don't really have much experience with relationship problems other than the fact that I still haven't gone out with anyone like most others in my year. don't get me wrong I love my school and all of my peers even if I am the sort of student that just sits there quietly and gets on with work, but I wish I could have some kind of relationship. Oh well I'm going to collage in a few months so maybe I can find someone who might like me for who I am and if not well I'm not to worried at the moment.. I have friends who already do but you know what I mean. So in any case all I can really say is that you keep looking, try to find someone who loves you for who you are, you may be surprised. I know all that stuff is really cheesy and you will probably will have seen things like it before but still. I wish you all the best.
Kinda wish I could get invited to those parties...
Don't get too depressed about dating, you've actual have a better chance than many others. (Especially if you've actually been propositioned!)
Think about what kind of relationship your actually looking for, and be serious about it to your friends. The non-jerks can help.
If your depression is from other things, might I suggest: reading comics, listening to light classical, listening to the lighter side of pony music (Pinkie Pie's Smile!), or just talking.
Seriously, some just can't date at all for one reason or another.
2915645 Thanks. And I'm sure you'll do fine. So long as you aren't going to an all boys college and you keep your nose clean I'm sure it wont be hard for you to find someone. When I'm not being all emotional I honestly think thats one of the reasons I've been single so long is due to the lack of having gone to college and getting to meet anyone there.
Though out of curiosity, how are you going to college at 16? Are you one of those super genius folks who skipped a bunch of grades?
2917485 You know, you'd think they were cool but they are never like in adult films or movies or even stories. Like it is one of those ideas that's way better in your mind or on paper. I know cause I've gotten to see alot of pictures. What they make it out like in popular media is more like a club. And trust me, there is NOTHING worse then a club. I went to a club one time, everyone actively ignored me for not looking like a movie star.
But yeah, these days I do everything I can to try to cheer myself up. I'm starting to think its a co dependency thing. Cause alot of issues I have just seem to kinda not be there when I'm in a relationship.
Also, I really like your icon. Its pretty cool.
2921194 Well I don't know if it works differently in America, or wherever you live but in the UK we leave school at 16 and have to stay in education till we're 18, most go to collage, six form or get an apprenticeship. I hear the grading system is pretty different to.
2922246 I think it goes different. Over here you are in public school till you turn 18. Then you're on your own. Some folks go to college but a decent bit don't anymore cause we gotta pay for most of it out of pocket. Theres alot who go and have to drop out for that reason too. There's a few who go to trade school also called tech schools to learn specialized physical stuff. That's what I did. Honestly I'm kinda lucky. Went to trade school, got out with a useful skill, and though I don't like giving details, I make enough I've been able to buy my own house and car and live comfortably. My brother went to college, he now works doing minimum wage stuff and can only get a house by combining his finances with his wife's.
Also, whats a six form? Is that like a tech school?
2923055 it's like further education in a school basically, you don't need uniform and you do things like a levels or courses or what ever there. Under 18s also get collage free here and I don't think we get left completely on our own, like the government will help with some things.