What would you say? · 9:57pm Mar 24th, 2014
What would you say if I told you I was going to die? What would you do? What would you feel? These answers I had to answer myself when my close friend broke news to me that she has stage 3A Breast Cancer. She had stage 2 and got medicated, but the medicine didn't have any effect. This friend of mine fears that she might leave soon and I'm very scared.
I mean this girl has been with me as long as I can remember! I actually consider her family. Now that I might loose her, I just...don't want to. Is it so wrong that I feel this way? WAIT, why does this remind me of the one story I am (possibly was) writing? ..... Anyways, I'm sorry to all who having read this. It's just that I had to type things out and...ask for suggestions of how to work through this. I mean, I really never experienced someone this close to me...soon dying. What should I do?
I shouldn't be freaking out too much if she might not die...So it's not too bad...Right? Thanks for reading! You all are so great!
Oh my... That's surely a delicate matter to talk about isn't it? I can imagine how you might be feeling right now, yet, I've never passed by such a difficult moment...
The only thing I could dare to say to you is to be strong, and by her side during this; as your friend, I believe she needs you even more now Regardless of her fate. I really hope she will overcome this, after all, the only one who can decide where, or when someone leave us, is not you or me, or a doctor; its destiny.
Don't let people say to you, or her, how much time she has. No one can affirm that, don't accept it as true, nothing in this world is impossible or immutable!
My best wishes
- PedroHander
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Thank you so much! Don't worry, I won't leave her! even though it'll be sad... again, thank you!
Pray to god she doesn't... Do everything you can to make her last months or days the best... It's what I did...
If you don't believe in god... Then just hope for the best...