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I am an Anti-Brony, I hate MLP, so why am I here? Read this...! https://www.fimfiction.net/blog/769267/if-im-an-anti-brony-why-am-i-on-this-site

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    Twilight Sparkle TROPE (Friendship is Failure)

    The Determinator: She always tries her best to get through to those with friendship problems and help them improve their lives, no matter how much they reject and act hostile towards her. She gets as far as saving someone from suicide, even if she gets shamed for it afterwards.

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  • 3 weeks
    What is YOUR Definition...

    People often yak at me

    "Try better yourself"

    "Grow up"

    "Improve"

    They say all that, but they don't provide actual definitions or explanations of what they mean by all that. It's like I'm supposed to guess what they want.

    The same thing follows with fiction, when people whine and complain.

    "This sucks"

    "Write them In character"

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  • 5 weeks
    Twilight Sparkle Improving Lives? (Friendship is Failure)

    People sure love to complain...

    She always tries her best to get through to those with friendship problems and help them improve their lives, no matter how much they reject and act hostile towards her.

    She gets disrespected a lot because she wants to help people, even though she's a princess who's saved Equestria on multiple occasions.

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  • 7 weeks
    Sentencing Characters (Dragnet Style)

    As you know (Or some of you at least) The Writer is the one in charge. The Writer is the master. The Writer... is... God (Of the world the write anyway)

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  • 8 weeks
    What will it Change? (Trying means Nothing!)

    In relation to my previous blog, https://www.fimfiction.net/blog/1035717/i-have-to-or-you-just-want-me-to which relates to "Are you doing it for ME or YOURSELF?"

    People still get up my back saying I need to "Get Help" "Change my groove" or, and the most often said "Fix your writing-- make it better/different"

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Feb
9th
2024

(Psychology) Trying to Change People who Don't want to Change. · 11:39pm February 9th

In relation to all the psychology pointers I've been giving I want to share with you a big pile of facts and inspiration I found from someone named

Sharon Martin, MSW, LCSW, a licensed psychotherapist specializing in helping individuals struggling with perfectionism, codependency, and people-pleasing.

Since a lot of people keep calling what I quote and point out "Your twisted view of reality" even though it's real reality too... Let's see how they react when this stuff is told by an actual psychologist. (Though I know they're gonna call the person crazy due to their own twisted demands of how reality should be)

Observe this link...

Stop Trying to Change People Who Dont Want to Change

I've read a lot what Sharon had to say about this particular subject, and I believe is right in many ways, and I want you to observe them all too and see how you feel about them.

Are you a helper, fixer, or rescuer?

Identify which part of the problem is in your control

Trying to solve other peoples problems often makes things worse, not better

Its not helpful to try to solve other peoples problems because:

Sometimes you can help

Control vs. influence

(When it comes to making characters, it will always be CONTROL)

How to stop trying to fix, change, or solve other peoples problems

What do you think of all the things Sharon had to say about those subjects?

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