Umby any chance is there anything in either fimfiction's or this group's rules about trying g to stop being single by asking around?
(Asking if this could potentially become something of a matchmaking group)

5074479 If you harass people, they will report you.

5074576 lol I am not stupid, and that is not even close to the answer to my question

5074588 How exactly would you be asking around?

5074593 this is a singles group is it not?
Perhaps not a group to stop being single, but a group for singles yes?

"Oh whoa is me I'm so lonely"
"Really? don't worry I give you huggles"
BAM start of a relationship.
That is what I'm talking about, don't know what YOU do to try and hook up with someone but honestly mindless drooling and hounding them ain't gonna help your cause.
You have to have some class, be friendly and gentlemanly. Polite, flirt only when the signs are showing, reserve yourself..... though honestly from what I have seen from you I might as well be speaking in bloody swahili.
Long story short, when I flirt or try and woo someone my dick stays in my pants and if someone shows no interest I do this thing called respecting their boundaries