My childhood home is now gone.. · 3:46am Mar 21st, 2022
Long-story short, when grandpa passed away the Will wasn't signed and thus probate happened..
I was torn away from my chilldhood home, the very home my grandpa wanted me to have..
More than a year later, my mom and I just found out the house was being remodeled.
My aunt's husband told me the house was sold because of taxes(and turns out that reason WAS A DAMN LIE)
Just.. JUST WHY!?!?
WHY did I had to suffer for a year of worrying about grandpa's house for it turns out ITS BEEN FUCKING SOLD.
FUCKING FALSE HOPES AND LIES!!
WHY!? WHY IS SO WRONG FOR ME TO LIVE IN MY CHILDHOOD HOME WHILE MY DAMN AUNT AND UNCLE WERE ALLOWED TO SELL IT!?
WHY IS GREED AND ENVY ALLOWED INSTEAD OF FAMILY??
I.. I just want to cry out..
Just.. why was grandpa's greatest fear allowed to happen.?
Just why...
I'm sorry for your loss.
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Why is this world so damn cruel.
It dangled so much false hope in my face for a year..
And felt like it actively foiled every single damn plan I had in getting my home back while my aunt and uncle were unhindered..
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We will never know.
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Just.. damn this world..
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Indeed.
5645133
I don't know what my future will be now..
5645134
Well, I hope you can get through this.
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Unless I get my house back, I really don't know..
I don't know what will happen..
5645136
Just try to be positive.
Don't give them that satisfaction.
5645137
They already had satisfaction with the money they get from what they had done..
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All I can tell you is that you can through this.
5645140
I really need alot of support right now..
5645141
Yes, you do.
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Yeah..
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Yeah.
Sucks that you're feeling that way.
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I just feel broken inside now.
5645228
Take some time if you need to, and don't be afraid to continue speaking up.
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Why is this world so messed up..
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That's just what it is.
5645244
The fact all my attempts in living at my home failed while my aunt and uncle were unhindered in selling it just really makes me want to scream..
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I'm sorry that it's not working out for you.
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Its like some entity sees its so wrong of me living in my childhood home..
5645252
I wouldn't say that entities like God think it's wrong.
Are your aunt and uncle good people, or scumbags?
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My grandpa didn't trust them but my other aunt keeps thinking he's misunderstanding them.
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So probably leaning away from good people.
If they're not good people, while I don't encourage hating them or wanting the worst for them, it's more them as people instead of the whole world.
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Well it felt like the whole world ensured I can never return living in grandpa's house..
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Are there any memories you have left?
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I think all the stuff I couldn't bring with me was thrown away behind my back by them..
5645273
Damn...
Are you sure you don't have anything that you yourself grabbed?
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I was able to get totes and got a bunch of stuff with me.
But they didn't let me bring my school papers stuff, going "You don't need it"
I DO FREAKING NEED THEM..
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Yeah, I state my case. They sound bad. I'd distance myself from them when possible.
Yeah, just take that guy to court and get your house back. And if you ever need a friend, we'll be here for you.
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I don't know what to do honestly..
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Thank you.
5645282
Tough out the time you have left with them, then keep your distance. In the mean-time, hold on to what you still have.
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My uncle is usually in another state while my aunt is usually busy.
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Don't let them near anything you feel they'll try to use for them.
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I am not sure what will happen honestly..
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Just be careful, dude.
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I will.
I…can relate, honestly. When my grandpa passed away (we always called him “Pop”), he gave everything to mom, cutting out our uncle (her brother), and that pissed him and a lot of his side of the family off, so much to the point that almost all of them cut us out of their lives, all because we wouldn’t give them anything of Pop’s; materialistic objects that they didn’t even earn or buy themselves. Majority of my family were gold-digging traitors, we helped them with more than we should’ve. And what was our reward? NOTHING. All we’ve done for them is give, give, give…and all they’ve done is take, take, take.
But regardless, my situation is not like yours, similar, yes, but not entirely the same; half of my family were traitors that barely got close to what Pop left us, but yours took something that was very dear to you and your grandfather. I can only imagine what you’re going through, and what you’re feeling; when I found out the truth, I felt betrayed, my emotions were in turmoil, and overtime I learned that there were times when I had to know to turn some things off, to be blunt, I taught myself how to mask my emotions, but never forget that they’re there, that there is a time to grieve, and a time to push forward. But you, you must be feeling 10, no, more than likely 100 times worse than I did.
My advice? If your enemies are nearby, don’t let on that they hurt you, don’t give them the satisfaction of victory, and, if you stay close to your enemies when your guard is unnoticeably up, and they let their own guard down…be ready. They might let something slip that they don’t want getting out in the open, that will be your ammunition against them; tell someone important that you trust, or anything else, just be sure not to leave a trace of your involvement.
I know, a guy like me shouldn’t be saying these things, but even positive guys can be negative sometimes; there is darkness, or negativity, in all of us. Also, I personally HATE traitors, especially towards my family, so I'm giving you this advice to use as you see fit, what happens after, is out of my hands now.
I hope this helped in any way, shape, or form.
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I just hope something can be done..
Thank you for the advice.
5645321 Me too, and you’re welcome
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I had to take care of grandpa when he was alive while my aunt and uncle rarely made contact with him.
5645324 Same here with my family
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I really don't get why this world sees its a sin for me to live in grandpa's house while my aunt and uncle where unhindered in selling it..