The Truth About Wingdingaling / Enforcing Accountability · 9:33am Oct 24th, 2021
I promise this will be the final blog about Wingdingaling. I've deleted my old blogs about him because back then, I didn't express the whole story from my side. But I'm not gonna put up with this because I'm kelp getting pushed in the dark for far too long, it's not even sad, it's infuriating.
Look, if you saw the whole PRINCESS CADANCE incident back in the summer, I commented on someone's blog where Wingdingaling talked about Pedophilia. The whole purpose of me inserting into the drama is because what is he said wasn't 100% correct. But then his girlfriend steps in while he stays mute again.
Story short, Wingdingaling and his girlfriend clearing never lays off for one single argument. She constantly say how I express how her boyfriend is evil while I'm gonna be stuck with it for the rest of my life. Ummm...maybe if you didn't shunned me out, you wouldn't be such a SJW.
Look back in 2018, I made Spike the dog clopfics where Spike was underage along with the old drafts of my Oliver stories that became inappropriate. I admit, what I did was terrible but the thing is, he assume I'm making BS up when he never believes me.
The biggest reason why I wrote those Spike stories is because my older clopfics didn't have much attention, since I used OCs. Also, and I know Wingdingaling's never going to ignore this but yes, I had sexual urges when I wrote clopfics but I would NEVER translate them into reality. Knowing there's a ton of Spike clopfics on this website and people don't understand I never used him for Foalcon since I never heard of it, including pedophilia, proves his assumptions are flawed.
If you ever think about messaging him or her girlfriend about the stuff I did, they will never allow you to think about how it hurt me physically. The Oliver stories, as much how the old drafts were inappropriate and cringe, they did not need to block me while assuming my choices were pulling alway his vision.
His vision is to take out the 'pedo' stuff and he had the audacity to put in a probation sentence in one of the chapters. It doesn't matter if I didn't proofread or allowed it, no one, not even the less experienced editors would ever do that. Not to mention that, I don't think he understands what my vision feels when he didn't bother to stop and think about the older drafts, mainly Honorary Dreams.
I was new back then and I had to start somewhere. Thinking about them now, it didn't age well however, it would have been better if they just calming talked to me. I never meant to trigger Wingdingaling in the first place. Regardless of the many stories he edit for me, I would never treat him as trash, or put him in this position. I would believe everything he said if he never shunned me out to begin with.
But let's get into Accountability. Even after three long years, he's still in the same position whenever I was willing to express my choices. He's not even bothering to be a the better person when is presents on this website isn't any different then anyone else. He expects me to be wrong for nothing...he doesn't be civil to me for once...and he's the one who's putting me in limbo with he fact he has zero feelings.
That's what I mean about enforcing accountability. I can't accept backlash when people keep on shunning me out. I despise getting shunt out, not matter what topic I'm in. It only makes their arguments meaningless and difficult to believe and letting it go makes it even worse.
My followers may never be my friends in real life but after everything I went through without losing a few of them, I'm not even sure if I'm doing the wrong thing or my own thing. If someone had a problem with me that will bother them, they shouldn't do what Wingdingaling did because here's the bigger truth about him.
He keeps bragging how he's superior then me, no no, not as a writer but thinking his life is awesome. His girlfriend even said about their marriage. Tell me, if they didn't act that way, I wouldn't made different assumptions. That's how much they valid points against me are backwards.
The reason why I kelp holding my feelings about him is because he made me happy. I may put him in a cringe position but when he blocked me without giving me a chance to talk about it, it made me depressed, and yet her girlfriend thinks I'm still unworthy to be around. I don't understand why some of my followers who are his followers see the bigger issue with him. I didn't make this blog to talk about my mental depression, I make this because I'm sick of constantly being put in the shadows for far too long while people tell me to let it go, leaving Wingdingaling alone.
Why? Their freedom of speech is inexcusable. This type of topic not matter how shocking it is to you, isn't on the same levels as predatory behavior. I've seen so many predators who find attraction towards minors, and yet every single one I've seen, NEVERED write fanfics. This is why I don't take fanfics seriously when it's base off of characters that don't exist. I don't use that as an excuse because I wanted more from any other cartoon (AND IT WASN'T ALL ABOUT SEXUALIZING CHARACTERS!!!).
Guys, if you're still following Wingdingaling, please have him or her girlfriend (dominus_fortune) to read this blog. I'm not playing this routine anymore, I know full well they would listen because they have a some point before they cut ties. I don't even want them as editors anymore, I just want to figure out their problem is this whole wrong doing I've did. I don't care if they're too strict, anyone who isn't strict won't be ashamed of themselves after being pushed around.
Wingdingaling, if you still think I'm calling you out as an evil person...no. I didn't had a problem with you before you blocked me for the first time. Regardless of the many stories you edit for me, I wouldn't brag about myself, even if the roles are reversed. You are no different then anyone in this world even if you accept it. Everytime you bring up something about me, you demonize me.
Accountability is important but it isn't the answer to everything. I never made any BS from what you said about me knowing how people are gonna see your true colors then the other person. What is your problem? I can accept the fact you're against my decisions and what I write, but I won't accept being shunned out. You have nothing more to proof, stop acting like I horrible, and your freedom of speech never worked.
You can stay far away as a brony or a member of community in your life if it's right for you, but it still isn't an excuse to make you better. I expected better from you and if you of your girlfriend continue to remind this position while actually exposing me in a blog for your own way, you have nothing more.
The reason people got annoyed with you in that blog was because you hijacked the thread to make it about you.
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I didn’t mean to hijack nor making it about myself, I was surprised I commented on Wingdingaling and it was the only way I could talk to him. Sometimes I would see where people are coming from about the PC incident, however Wingdingaling’s opinions act like they’re facts then proof.
Not trying to be a downer here, but he’ll probably use this blog for his own means and put his spin on the situation. Hopefully, after this, this whole situation will be put to rest. This has gone on for far too long in my opinion. Once again, not trying to be a downer or seem ignorant or apathetic, just giving my opinion on this situation.
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He seriously needs to lay off. There’s no reason for him to spin anything. What you and the others are doing by not having him being civil is what I’m talking about.
The professional lunatic, I deleted your comment because it sums everything I’m fed up with. Did you even read the whole blog?
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Right./
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No offense but do you even have anything to say?
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Perhaps it's best if you, Wing, and the others all just block each other.
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All I’m saying is that being civil and trying to talk things out or attempting to compromise doesn’t seem to be in his or his girlfriend’s nature as people. I do agree with you that people need to be accountable for things that they say online with no legitimate reason to do so. Also, I was merely making the assumption, not outright saying that either of them would do that. I look forward to your next chapter from either of the stories you’re currently working on.
To everyone else here, this is merely my opinion on the situation as an outside observer. Please don’t crucify me for stating my view on this entire situation.
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No. I’m not disagreeing with you, your giving him his way and it’s getting done to death. If I just keep blocking him while play by his rules, he’ll keep making more invalid points. There’s no excuse for this, I’m not putting up with this anymore.
Whatever happened to you two it's obviously something that everyone else will never fully know because we're going by hear-say. The issue at hand was that you put it upon yourself to start an argument about a Blog that was stating something very important and trying to raise awareness. You could have just ignored him, let it be and not said anything at all. But you chose to respond to him knowing that it would cause problems whether with him or his girlfriend. That is where you went wrong. Just ignore people you know provokes you. And if you say you can't ignore them, well that's your problem then and everyone else will be annoyed that you can't do the simplest thing such as turning off your phone
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Turning off my devices? If he was someone I’ve just met then I would’ve ignore him. When you say something in defense of an former editor who’s much different then any other editor, you clearly don’t understand how personal this was to me. I can be aware of backlash for annoying people in your blog afterwards, but when his girlfriend steps in and making stuff up while she and he goes scot-free, that is where I had to make a stand.
Staying in this predicament by not ignoring him while people don’t care and getting annoyed by me is further proof that he needs to lay off, not me. Look, if your considering on talking to him (even if I doubt you will) while getting all the information, he should at least be civil because there’s no reason for him to flip out. I’m not just gonna stop all because he blindsided me, even to this day, I shouldn’t have an opinion to hate him. I’m don’t like him anymore but still.
Everytime people like his girlfriend tell me to drop it while I’m forced into it doesn’t mean I should be muted. His girlfriend’s Hear-say excuse was uncalled for when she’s enforcing it instead of doing something else. I expect slightly more from users to talk to him while for once in his life is to take it civility. And when people choose his side without any other alternative that was ALSO simple, I’m still surprised how they will feel if they took my place.
I need to make one thing clear since you and him are following together, I’m not calling you his white knight. Whenever I see him talking to his followers who are also my followers, he’s mostly open minded. I’m mostly open minded and I was taking the easy route of my experiences with him. This whole bringing up to myself (not including your blog about awareness) doesn’t feel deserved, especially forcing to drop it.
Sorry for writing a long response but please be civil with me. I take everything into context when I bring a topic like this up and I never allow anyone to ignore how fed up I am. One thing you and him don’t know about me is that I don’t treat fictional elements as restricted problematic debates, expect in reality. And no, I’m not including PC’s final story knowing he tried to make it real.
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But you realize that when you say he gets off scott free, you guys are on the internet on a pony site. No one is going to get into any trouble. Nothing's going to happen to you and nothing is going to happen to him. If you want to take it personal and drag it on because you have to "make a stand" well that's your problem and people will get annoyed at it because it doesn't have to be a problem all the dang time. There were times when I wanted to respond to people that were annoying me but I didn't because it wasn't worth my time. I came on this site to write stories and to maybe make a few online friends. I came on this site because I'm a writer not to mess around with people in debates and arguments and get into feuds. I've been given threats and death threats multiple times but I just laugh at it because it's stupid. And once again, if you can't do that well that's not my problem just do me a favor and keep it off my account and my blogs
Edit: Also, whatever you reply to this I'm not going to respond because once again it's stupid and that's not why I'm on this site.
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Sorry for bothering you but you don’t have to be harsh.