My date from last night · 5:32pm Nov 23rd, 2020
I'm reposting a story I told in my Discord, but adding additional details for your entertainment. Prepare to laugh at my misfortune and misery, friends!
Yeah so this girl is crazy, as I guessed. Lemme regale you guys with how this date went, because oh boy was it a doozie.
1. I pull up to her place and wait for her. She takes a few minutes and then comes out. First thing I notice? She blatantly lied about her weight. Now I don't mind if a girl is a little chubby or what have you, but this girl was just... beyond. But fuck it, I decide to just try the date and see if we gel personality-wise.
2. She immediately tries to pull out a cigarette and light up as soon as we get going. This really sets me off, and I tell her I don't like people smoking in my car. She goes, "It's old, who cares?". Me, bitch. I have taken really good care of my 2003 Civic and I'm not about to have it smell like shit.
3. So we're almost to my apartment and she goes "Yeah so I talk to my ex a lot and he wants your address in case things go south". I say, "Uh, why?". She replies, "Because I trust him and he's my best friend." So already I have three red flags. And no, I didn't give this dumb cunt or her simp of an ex-boyfriend my address.
4. She starts going on and on about how she used to be a drug addict and spent time in a psychiatric ward due to them. She would apparently do cocaine, heroin, smoke weed, drop acid (apparently acid isn't a hard drug to her by the way and she still does it!).
5. She mentions her ex-boyfriend and his kids at least forty fucking times. Going on and on about how he is a dick (even though she wanted to give him my address) but she loves his kids and thinks of them as her own still even though they were never hers and she's not dating the guy anymore. This is straight psycho shit, man.
6. I let her know beforehand that since she wanted to schedule the date for Sunday, that's fine, but I will be watching the Colts as I have never once missed a game of theirs since 2005. If it wasn't on TV, and I didn't have Sunday Ticket, I would literally pull up the radio broadcast. I love them that much. She said she understood, so we watch the game together. I try to talk with her during it, but she just keeps texting other people and watching stuff on Tik Tok.
This woman is fucking 31, by the way.
7. I have had enough. Once the Colts win (fuck you Packers @Dashu <3 ), I make up a lie and say that @beta aquilae is at the airport and needs a lift because his ride bailed on him. I drive her home and peel the fuck out. She messaged me this morning saying "So I guess I'm not your type?"
Yeah, I like mature women who act their fucking age and don't play games.
Also go Colts! 7-3 BABY!
The relationship between her and her ex sounds like so many levels of cuckery.
... Well then... that's uh... interesting.
Immediately the red flags went up when she pulled out a cigar, I could just tell right away this was not going to end well. >.<
I've read at least three of the things you listed and halfway through this blog, I could already tell this date of yours was bad news
The last red flag for me would have been mentioning the ex being her best friend and ask to share the address with them.
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Yeah, the moment this was said, I was essentially thinking to myself, "Okay I'll entertain her for a night, but that's it". I hate being jerked around by stupid, childish people.
almost sounds fake. cant believe it happened. keep at the search dude
Nah. I would have cut that off the moment she brought up her ex like that. That's not only a sign you're not really on her mind, but I hope you appreciate that your life was on the line.
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Oh, 100%. My entire thought process from then on was "Holy shit, they might try to rob me" and maybe the date was a way to scope out my apartment.
Damn, you have more patience than me. I'd have dropped her back off at her place by point #3.
I'm glad you managed to swerve that bitch. You'll find your queen soon, king 👑
Well I wouldn't say staying friends with your ex is an automatic red flag. But yeah, she sounds pretty awful.
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C'mon, any good clingy gf knows that you find that info out before the first date. Simply asking for that info is for rookies!
Seems to me that if she's 21, you find that crazy shit out on the third date. At 31, she tells you upfront on the first.
I don’t date because of shit like this lol