Putting my Hoof down · 7:10pm May 30th, 2019
*sighs*
I tried. I gave him plenty of chances. He doesn't learn, nor does he even try to make an effort to change. I told my ex-husband he has until the end of the month to find a place to live. I won't continue to allow him to leech off of me. At first I thought, you know all those years, I felt I was leeching off him when I didn't have the job, it was only fair for me to give back. To help him out when he had nothing. And I knew, I could see how he continued to get worse and worse. Having no motivation, and just lounging about the house all day long. I know this decision was ultimately a hard one to mull over, but I have to do what is best for me. And it's time I finally move on without him. Sure, certain things might be a bit tricky, but God is good, and it will all work out in the end. I'm hopeful I'll have my license by the end of June, and there might be a car that I might be able to do a rent to own thing, that a client is selling for 5k so it seems like things might be looking up for me. I don't really have a bf. I have a friend whom I really enjoy spending time with, but right now we're JUST friends. And I'm not going to push him. I understand he's going through a lot like that, as am I. And I've got to know WHO is the most important right now. I have to focus on me right now. Once I get my shit into gear, then maybe, I'll be ready for a relationship again.
Good luck.
(that's the only thing I could say to you at best)
Good for you, stay strong & stand proud!
Good for you.
Hang in there, sometimes you just have to make tough decisions in life and hope that they work out best.
You got this! One step at a time. It’s tough, but you gotta keep that kind of negativity from dragging you down. I was in a somewhat similar situation for a long while, and now I’ve got a job that I know I can do.