11 months aka the longest i've ever been in a relationship aaaaaaaaa · 3:12pm Sep 13th, 2018

hewwo today, september 13, marks 11 months since i started dating a truly amazing person (altho my girlfriend is also pretty amazing but today is about my boyfriend 💙)

Almost a year ago, I had been asked to look at one of my discord alts. I found a confession. I didn't know what to do with this. I went about my day like normal, the thought of someone crushing on me still in my head. Later that day, while I was doing dishes, I came to realize that maybe the reason I couldn't stop thinking about him was because I, too, was crushing on him.

I didn't know how to say anything about it. I believe a few days after this we both came clean to each other. That day was October 13th, 2017, and we've been dating since.

In the time I've been dating him, I've realized some things about myself. A couple weeks after we started our relationship, I realized I was biromantic, and not heteroromantic as I had first thought. He supported me. Months later, I realized I was polyamorous. He supported me, and said he'd try not to get jealous of any other people I might start dating. A little more than a week after my birthday, I started trying different pronouns. Those pronouns (she/they) fit much better than she/her. Although I currently identify as a demigirl, I've been questioning if I'm really more girlflux, as some days I feel more feminine than others. He supported me then, and he supports me now. He supports my relationship with my girlfriend.

I love him so so so much. He's one of the many lights in my life, and certainly one of the ones that shine brightest. He's my boyfriend and my best friend. 💙