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MidnightDancer


"Never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be."– Clementine Paddleford

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  • 177 weeks
    I'm the worst :D

    I know! Terrible.

    Just popping in for my periodic State of the Dancer, you know how I do.

    Previously, I was lamenting my lack of free time due to the whole working full time and having my smol child. I decided to add to that by rebooting the soap business.

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    17 comments · 355 views
  • 198 weeks
    yo

    whaddup tho

    32 comments · 350 views
  • 247 weeks
    marrieddancer

    wheeeeeeeeeeew

    the wedding was a fucking blast, actually

    Professor Plum made a really excellent bridesman, and as soon as I get the pics back with him in his kilt, they'll be incoming

    and Sicily for the honeymoon was just

    my god

    perfection

    14 comments · 384 views
  • 249 weeks
    Oh hey

    Wow, been a hot minute, eh?

    I've missed this site. Last year, I went through Some Shit over the summer and fall, and then I got engaged in November to a very nice man.

    We get married in five days, and I had noticed a lot of registry gifts coming in all of a sudden with real names attached that I did not recognize.

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    15 comments · 475 views
  • 303 weeks
    NEW PLAN

    Germany is kiboshed, unfortunately--lots of rl stuff going on around con-time.

    So, instead, I'll be at Bronycon so I'm closer to home :)

    Can't wait to see you guys!

    :rainbowkiss:

    18 comments · 406 views
Oct
19th
2017

Sometimes I forget how busy my life gets! · 8:01pm Oct 19th, 2017

Hey guys!

Life, amirite?

There don't seem to be enough hours in the day, sometimes, to do all the things I want to do. My head explodes with untold stories because every situation has a story inside it and my head builds it and writes it and then it sits inside my head, ready to go, but without time to actually put it down.

I'm even writing this blog in a minor respite from work--as soon as a customer pops in, I have to abandon it.

Things have been okay since my surgery, and I've even gotten myself one of those new-fangled boyfriend things. It's pretty neat, but another thing that takes my time away (along with my job, my child, myself, sleep, my family...). I love all those things, but it leaves precious little time for my hobbies and interests.

I'll have to start budgeting that hour or two of quiet I get at night after my son goes to bed--I want to get these stories out and share with you all again. It's been hard to think of sharing with the community due to some pretty fucked-up events that occurred recently, but I believe good and deserving people still exist, so I'm going to try.

I've let go of the toxic people, and I've embraced those that have been there for me and who love and respect me in turn. I learned a long time ago that nobody is owed my time, my attention, my love, or my forgiveness, and it's nice to revisit that lesson. Friendship might be magic, but the best magic in life is that caused once you remember what you're worth.

<3

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Comments ( 5 )
PresentPerfect
Author Interviewer

Welcome back! Glad your surgery went well! :D

Hope you're doing well!

Majin Syeekoh
Moderator

Glad to hear that you’re doing well. Hope to see more from you on the site.:heart:

It's good to hear from you! I had been wondering where you were and how things were with you after BronyCon. Congrats on the boy friend! Just be sure to make time for you, too, though. Like you said, you're important. Just as important as everyone else! Looking forward to reading more good stories from you!
Take care of you!

*hugs* I'm glad to see you again.

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