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LyraAlluse


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Jun
1st
2017

Dealing with Jealousy and Broken Friendships · 5:33pm Jun 1st, 2017

Dealing with Jealousy and Broken Friendships

Jealousy can be a tough thing to deal with. You want to believe that as someone who tries to do the right thing or generally be a good person that jealously can't effect you. But the reality is that it is something that everyone has experienced in one form or another in their lives. It it is a natural human emotion and it is okay to feel jealous about a situation, just as long as you also work to resolve the issue at the same time.

A few years back, I had a situation arise that made me confront this uncomfortable emotion. I used to hang out with a particular friend all of the time. But then the friend started hanging out more with another friend. Even if I tried to hang out with her, she would prefer to hang out with my other friend instead. It made me feel a bit jealous and like there was something wrong with ME to make her not want to hang out with me anymore.

I tried hanging out with both of them as much as I could. I even asked if there was something I was doing that was making them upset. But they both said they had no problem with me. The situation ended in me breaking off the friendship with both of them because I was kind of tired of feeling like a third wheel in the friendship. They both really didn't miss me when I was gone because they had already become close friends anyway.

The moral here is that sometimes friends you make will grow apart from you for whatever reason. It isn't your fault. It is just something that happens as people grow up and get different interests, educational training, or jobs. A mature way to deal with something like that is to just realize the friends are more interested in hanging out with each other, shrug, and move on to making new friends. If they call you up and wonder why you haven't talked to them in a while, then you can think about reestablishing a friendship with them again because maybe they were just busy. But if not, don't sweat it. Move on to hanging out with people who will like hanging out with you and will appreciate you for who you are.

At the same point in time, don't be down on yourself for feeling lonely, depressed, or jealous that your friends have moved on without you. Again, these are all very natural feelings to have. Just make sure to deal with these emotions and try not to carry them over to new friendships where they can cause problems later on down the road. Think of new friendships as a brand new start, a fresh slate, and a new beginning. Put the sad events of the life behind you and do your best to move on.

You will find that having a fresh new start will help to build self-confidence and make stronger friendships than the ones you left behind.

Comments ( 14 )

Thanks for the lesson Lyra.

4554894 You are very welcome. I hope that it is something that can help. :)

4554915 Many hugs and snuggles to you as well. :)

That was a good blog for these kind of lessons.

4555598 Thank you for taking the time to read it. I hope it is advice that can help. :heart:

4559734 Thank you very much, my friend. I am glad that it could help. :)

4559734 Thank you very much, my friend. I am glad that it could help. :)

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As I’m glad you made this blog

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