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JJKamano


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    So much in so little time.

    So much has happened in such little time, the girlfriend broke up with me because I was apparently, "Not giving her enough attention," and that she was hoping to stay friends. Never happened. It's been about 3 months since the break up, and I can't seem to get over it. Can't blame myself, we've been together for more almost 4 years, and then this happens. Ah well, I'm not going to grudge over it

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  • 491 weeks
    So, it's been a while.

    Good lord, it's been so long since I've felt like this. I've come accustomed to so many things within the past few months. I've seen that I find death as only a part of life now, and I feel that it does happen, and it requires life to press on. Because if you think about it, after the stories I've also read on here, who wants to live forever, right? I have so much to talk about, and so little

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  • 510 weeks
    Spring Break 2012. :D

    This has been one of the best Spring Break's I've had in months now. Good to say, me and my mother are once again on good terms, and talking normally again. We have had our issues, but we have overcome them once more. I have two families who have my back through thick and thin, and I have to give a shout-out to my Girlfriend, who has been supporting me for quite a bit now. If that issue is

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  • 511 weeks
    Well, this has been pretty shitty.

    Well, I do hope to get a story up soon, but I'm not completely sure on when I'll be getting it up. Hopefully by tonight, or tomorrow, either way. Some shit's been going down with my mother, as some people think she's going through 'Empty Nest Syndrome' so I have to deal with a bunch of bull from her, ungratefully, it sucks. Just last night I ended up sobbing over what she had to say about me and

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Mar
28th
2012

Well, this has been pretty shitty. · 8:26pm Mar 28th, 2012

Well, I do hope to get a story up soon, but I'm not completely sure on when I'll be getting it up. Hopefully by tonight, or tomorrow, either way. Some shit's been going down with my mother, as some people think she's going through 'Empty Nest Syndrome' so I have to deal with a bunch of bull from her, ungratefully, it sucks. Just last night I ended up sobbing over what she had to say about me and whatnot, and it seems that all she could ever do is judge me on what I do, how I look, and those around me. Not to mention that she judge's every single person she see's after coming home from work, or wherever else, and she decides that she's going to rant onward about random people she only saw for about 2 minutes, sometimes not even that long.

If anypony could help me on this issue, and give me advice on how to deal/cope with it, I'll be willing to hear everypony out on what they have to say. Just please, help me through this. I am asking you, the brony/pegasister nation, to help me get through this. It's not easy when your mom is like this, especially that she is one of the people you rely on the most in life.

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Dang, this is hard just to read. I hope I can say what needs to be said now.

*Sigh*

Ok, First: This is not unique. Everyone goes through these rough times and everone has these trials. The main difference is how you deal with it. Life feels worse when the ones you care about are down and hurt. The only was for your life to get better, is for their life to get better. You have to say with them and do all you can to help them.

Second: About your mom. I would like to say I know what your going through but I won't lie. But I do know what it is like to have a close family member down and hurting. Right now my only grandparent I have is 14 hours away and has cancer. This burns my heart and puts me down. Hec, im in the same boat as you. Im also writing my own story, but im held up by my family problems. When things get down like this you need to take it strong, but a different kind of strong. One point of this is that it's ok to cry, it's ok to lean on your friends, it's ok to ask for help. All crying shows is that your emotionaly built up and you passed your breaking point. You did a smart thing by even posting this measage, so that others can help you. When these rough points come up in life, you have to know your never alone. There is always people with you and ready to help you.

Third: 'Empty Nest Syndrome' is caused by losing something, even if it is temporary. How others judge you and what they see you as is a point of reflection everyone has. I do not know if she is emotionaly distraught, phisicaly battered, or this is her normal attatude, so I will not guess. If she thinks you are not something you are, well you have to show her that she missed something. I am not saying that you should do something big or stupid but that you have to try to show her what you really are.

Fourth: I want you to remember that you are not alone, and I think it would be wise if you went to your friends and talked it out, it will be painful, but it is better in the long run. And they might be able to give better help then I can. Also, I am just going to tell you, I do have a religion, and I am a christain. I do not know you, nor know to full extent what you are going through, but i will be praying for you and your mom. I do not know your religion, your veiws, or your ways so I will not be pestering you about this. But back to the topic. There is still life out there, and a hope, and a future. Time will tell what happens, which we have more-or-less of a effect in. But there are friends to help you, and you must confine in them, for they can help you through your life. To this, I say, good night, good luck, and a good life!

Oh, forgot to add: Good luck with your story, there is no time limit of when it needs to be done, so just keep working at it! My own story is still a good 2-5 weeks off so i'll be wating to read yours! Good Luck!:ajsmug:

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I don't know how much I can thank you my friend, but I do want to say that it has been cleared up, and I will get the story up once I do get another chapter completed. I don't know when this will be, seeing school is being a drag, and just trying to get stuff done and whatnot. Thank you very much for your concern my friend. It's good to know that there are still good people out there. :twilightsmile:

Meanwhile, I do hope you get to see your grandfather once more, and many more times before time does take him away. I know it's hard, but here's hoping that you get through it strong, and with a chin held high. I know I can't say much, because a family member of my own has never had cancer before, but I do wish the best for you my friend.

Anyways, I will post a new blog in a couple hours, I have a lot of stuff on my plate at the moment, like for instance, I'm at my Girlfriend's house, and we are conversing and whatnot, and we're going to be going to Dade City to see a show, and whatnot. So, I'll have a blog posted sooner or later. :D

Many thanks once more my friend, and I do hope that everything works out for ya. :pinkiesad2:

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