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Jun
7th
2024

“I’ve found the person I’m suppose to be with.” · 8:41pm June 7th

That’s what she said to me.

21 years together.

14 years married.

2 kids.

A dog and cat.

A house.

Stood by her when she has cancer, we made a life together.

But nope. None of that mattered. None of that was worth fixing or trying to save. Just ‘I’m with him now, let’s be friends.’

This is legit what happened to me in February of this year. Worst pain, worst year of my life.

I’m doing alright, as much as I can be. Went through a lot of dark spaces, and still get stuck in them.

Much of the time, I’m sad or angry. I can’t stand to be near here or speak to her, but I have to deal with her for the next 9 years until my son turns 18.

Gonna try to get back into things that made me happy at one point, writing and drawing included, but they will mostly be for me.

-In lieu of any “I’m sorries” or send me Pone pics. It always helps.

Thanks to whoever is still out there.

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Comments ( 12 )

Sorry to hear that mate. There is not much i could say to make you feel better but I am certain that you get over it.

I had wondered what had happened to you, and yeah, I get it. "I'm sorry" just doesn't seem like much in the face of such a life shattering event.

It seems oddly strange to me that when some folks go through life altering events, such as cancer, they get this weird warped outlook on life. The possibility of death is to cause one to reflect on life, to appreciate and love what they have, especially with someone else there to share the burden of inevitably.

No one deserves what you got. Let's just be friends just feels like a slap in the face.

You have a community here, and I think I speak for many when I say absence sometimes takes us away, but never fear of not being welcomed back into the fold. Welcome home, kick the shoes off, get comfortable, and speak when you feel the need. Tell us a story when you are ready.

Corey #3 · June 7th · · ·

Fuck dude, if you ever need to talk I'm here for you

I don't have anything helpful to add beyond: you're not alone.

Hey dude, long time no see. Sorry to hear of your difficult situation you gone through, worst then most of us, and the feeling of rejection after you stood by her side in the most difficult hour for the both of you only to drift apart in the aftermath. I hope you will find a way let go of the past and to move on form this disappointing chapter of your life and discover a whole new one.

Also, welcome back dude, I have missed talking to you, hope we get in touch again.

You are not permitted to kill a woman who has wronged you, but nothing forbids you to reflect that she is growing older every minute. You are avenged one thousand four hundred and forty times a day

--Ambrose Bierce

Bro, that sucks so bad.

I know it sounds a little cliche and right now probably doesn't feel like it's going to help you much, but you're better off without her.

She obviously has no loyalty in her heart and what she did to you, she'll do to him. All you can do is watch as she eventually stabs the guy in the back she ditched you for and then be the one to step up to him and offer a hand to help lift him up to his feet and a sturdy shoulder to cry on.

It sucks that the child you two had together is caught up in this. Spite her by being a better father to your child than she could ever hope to be a mother. Also let it be known, not just to her, but also her friends and her family that that's your child as much as it is hers and if she ever does anything to harm your child, you'll happily go to the electric chair knowing she'll never do it again.

The best vengeance is to live your life better than hers.

I went through something similar, and it isn’t easy. I hope you’re able to navigate those rough waters ahead. Just know we’re all here pulling for ya.

Man, that is rough. I'm sorry to hear this happened.
But I hope you'll be able to endure and overcome. :fluttercry:
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